#18 "If you protect them, children will grow up to be strong"
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From the poem "Children Learn What They Live"
⭐️If you protect them, children will grow up to be strong⭐️
What it means to be a strong child
is to be able to face challenges
The strength to believe in oneself
Parents cannot be with their children forever.
However, throughout their childhood,
you can teach them that no matter what happens,
their parents are always on their side.
By doing so, children will grow up to be able to live strongly
even after they become adults.
Building confidence in children✨
If they lack confidence and cannot believe in themselves,
they tend to become pessimistic about life.
They give up easily...
Raising a child with confidence
depends on how the parent raises them!
Believe in your child and believe in their potential✨
Convey your trust in your child to them!
Supported by their parents in this way,
they believe in themselves and grow✨
The book speaks like this!
My own parenting philosophy is the same✨
I have also been able to gain that kind of strength,
even though I didn't feel like I was being protected.
I felt the trust from my parents very deeply,
sometimes even more than my own capabilities...
Being trusted,
that is what made me strong.
If the parent-child bond is tied with strong trust,
the child's heart will be stable, and self-confidence will be born.
Even if they fail,
or cannot do things well,
convey to the child that
the parent is always on their side.
No matter what happens,
my parent will be on my side!
At any time,
they will protect and support me!
If you can think that way,
children can trust their parents from the bottom of their hearts✨
Those who believe are strong!
If you believe in something greater than your own existence,
you can bravely face the hardships of life.
To "believe in something" means
to have conviction✨
A person with conviction can walk through life with confidence!
Is it what you call groundless confidence?
Having something to believe in spiritually
The strength to believe in oneself
Conviction✨
Build their confidence!
From the moment they say "I can do it myself," the seeds of confidence begin to grow...
Watch over your child's trial and error and continue to support them✨
Until a child can gain enough self-confidence,
it is important for parents to let them try again and again.
Depending on the time and situation, it is necessary to reach out and help.
That balance is important!✨
Motivate them casually without putting pressure on them.
It is natural to fail sometimes.
If you set your goals high, you may fail.
It is precisely at such times that we believe in ourselves and do our best.
We teach our children to believe in themselves.
Without being too overprotective,
nurture their motivation,
let them try again and again,
and let's help them grow their strength and confidence✨
Become a parent that your child can trust!
Children expect their parents to keep their promises.
They believe what their parents say,
and they believe that they will do as they say.
Even if the parent doesn't mean it that way,
children think what their parents say is a promise.
For example, if you say you will pick them up at a certain time, the child believes it.
If you are always late or stand them up, the child will stop trusting you.
They will be disappointed, thinking that you don't care about them at all.
Rather than expecting something and being betrayed,
they give up, thinking it's better not to rely on you from the start...
I sometimes see and hear this from the children I meet.
I myself was also a child who did not expect anything from my parents...
Children will come to trust
parents who meet their expectations, won't they?✨
Let's face them
with sincerity and compassion.☺️
Sometimes, fun things too!
It is also important for children to experience fun events that break the habits of daily family life!
It is important for children!
Fresh experiences away from daily life✨
Children will remember such exciting experiences for the rest of their lives.
Children grow by having new experiences and learning new things every day✨
Even in a peaceful family life, sometimes you need a change!✨
Confidence means believing in yourself!
Believe in yourself and make decisions!
That is the driving force behind action✨
If your own ideas are vague and you lack confidence,
you will become a weak child who is easily swayed by others...
First, parents must believe in their children!✨
Every parent wishes for their child to grow up believing in themselves and being able to trust others.They also want their child to be able to properly protest when someone treats them badly.Furthermore, they want their child to grow into someone who keeps their promises to others and is trusted by them. They want their child to grow into someone who keeps their promises to others and is trusted by them.
Self-confidence determines a child's future!✨
[Summary]
⭐️If you protect them, children will grow up to be strong⭐️
Believe in your child and believe in their potential!
⭐️No matter what happens, parents will be on their child's side!
⭐️At any time, protect and support them!
⭐️Watch over and continue to support your child's trial and error!
⭐️Become a parent your child can trust!
⭐️Provide fresh experiences outside of daily life!
Trust fosters self-confidence!
For a child who can believe in themselves✨
Lessons from "Children Learn What They Live"...
<Back Issues>
・"Poem 'Children Learn What They Live' ~Introduction~"
#1 "If children are raised being criticized, they learn to condemn others"
#2 "If children are raised in a hostile home, they become violent"
#3"If you raise them with anxiety, the children will also become anxious"
#4 "If you raise them by saying 'you poor child', the child will feel miserable"
#5 "If you make a fool of a child, they will become withdrawn"
#6 "If parents are always envious of others, children will also learn to envy others"
#7 "If you are always scolding them, children will think 'I am a bad child'"
#8 "If you encourage them, children will gain confidence"
#9 "If you treat them with an open heart, they will not become children who lash out"
#10 "If you praise them, children will grow up to be cheerful"
#11 "If you love them, children will learn to love others"
#12 "If you acknowledge them, children will learn to like themselves"
#13 "If you watch over them, children will become hard workers"
#14 "If you teach them to share, children will learn compassion"
#15 "If parents are honest, children will know the importance of being honest"
#16 "If you are fair to children, they will grow up to have a sense of justice"
#17 "If you raise them with kindness and compassion, children will grow up to be kind"
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