💔6.28.25 Dream of a Mean Girl - Realizing Psychic Synchronicity through Time-Lag Dream Analysis ③ | Dream Diary | Dream Analysis | Jungian Psychology | Depth Psychology | Trauma | Moral Harassment | Parent-Child Relationship | Father-Daughter Relationship | Healing | Purification | Synchronicity | End-of-Life Care | Sudden Sensorineural Hearing Loss

*This post is a continuation of
💔6.28.25 Dream of a Mean Girl
- Realizing
Psychic Synchronicity ②
through Time-Lag Dream Analysis.

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Please be sure to read it as well.

1. What happens when you face trauma dreams at the collective unconscious level?

In the Dream of a Mean Girl ① and ②,
I posted the dream diary and dream analysis
separately,
but they were disturbing dreams from start to finish.

Even though they were unpleasant dreams,
to those who read both ① and ②,
thank you so much.

This time, I will summarize the significance of facing trauma dreams
based on my own experience, linking it to those.

▶ My personal experience: My relationship with my father, with whom I had a long-standing feud

In this note,
I have posted dreams related to my deep trauma,
sometimes including my real-life thoughts,
without hiding anything.

For example, my relationship with my father, with whom I had a long-standing feud.
He passed away two years ago
from rare lymphoma.

In other words, my father is not here in reality,
so repairing the father-daughter relationship in real life
is impossible.

However, by repeating dream analysis,
I believe the father-daughter relationship, which I thought was impossible to repair,
has progressed to a catharsis (tragic purification)
to the point where I feel everything has been sublimated.

This year marks my father's third memorial service.
At the end of July, I safely
finished the third memorial service.

In other words, in Buddhist terms,
this is the year when the judgment in the afterlife ends,
and he is sorted into either heaven or hell.

In Buddhist terms, it can be said that my father's soul has been released from worldly attachments,
and it is the timing for his enlightenment and liberation.
That is, if he is a person who can be liberated lol

It can also be said that it is time for the family to end their mourning,
a period when Mourning Work
is likely to be completed.

In other words, I believe that I have overcome
my long-standing feud,
and the healing of my heart after his passing
is complete.

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Click here for the post about
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By posting these two dream analyses
on note,
I am almost certain that the father-daughter relationship
has been sublimated.

2. Solving things in dreams that are impossible in reality

I think this was possible precisely because it was dream analysis.
After all, my father is no longer here in reality, and

my father had strong ADHD tendencies and
hearing loss in both ears since he was young,
so we couldn't really have a conversation.

The thought that we both wanted to be understood,
but that it never came to pass,
was the final scene with my father while he was conscious.

I have summarized this in the
dream diary mentioned above.

▶ The origin of the father-daughter relationship is the dream posted at the very beginning of the note

Thinking about it, since I started this note at the end of June,
I have had dreams about facing fatherhood and masculinity from time to time.

As I analyzed them,
I remembered that my father's third memorial service
was coming up soon.

It's not that I was aware of it from the beginning,
but as I consistently faced my dreams,
I was able to notice the connection.

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Posted at the time this note was opened.
A dream where I feel an internal fatherhood
in the comedian Taizo Harada.▼
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3. Synchronicity is for those who notice it!!

This kind of coincidence in timing
is called synchronicity.

It is my personal theory that
synchronicity is for those who notice it, and
if you don't notice it, it just flows away.

Actually, it happens frequently, but
without the foundation to notice it,
you cannot experience it.

🔹 What is synchronicity?

A concept proposed by psychologist Jung,
it refers to meaningful coincidences.

Events that seem like mere accidents at first glance
occur in perfect correspondence with
one's inner state or unconscious themes.
It refers to such phenomena.

▶ Synchronicity that occurred during the analysis of the mean girl dream

For example, returning to the story of
the mean girl dream,
at the time I had the dream,
there was a flea market item that remained unsold
both in reality and in the dream.

This was actually sold
on a real-world flea market site.

This is also a meaningful coincidence
that holds up because I waited three months
to perform a time-lag re-analysis.

Furthermore,
since this item was a retro masterpiece,
it was listed at a high price,
and it was a quite large and
heavy item that my father loved.

One can find meaning
in the item itself as well.

🪞Symbol of the retro high-priced item my father loved
(Specifically, it is an 8mm film projector)

The symbolic meaning of the actual projector
is that the old machine = the weight of my father's existence,
and the weight of past memories.

The fact that it is not broken but
unused is also a point.

In other words, it is a symbol of a father-daughter relationship
that is not severed, but no longer functioning.

The fact that it is a masterpiece and a high-priced item means
that both physically and psychologically,
it cannot be easily let go of,
nor can it be thrown away.

Emotional value, guilt, and
the feeling of not being able to treat my father poorly
meant it stayed in the house unsold for a long time = unfinished emotions
physically remained in front of me.

The symbol of the past that sat deep in my heart
has finally disappeared, both realistically and in my depth psychology.
It is the completion of letting go,

both emotionally and physically,
and can be called a typical example of synchronicity between dream and reality.

In Jungian psychology, such
coincidence between dream and reality
is captured as synchronicity,
and it is considered a phenomenon where the individual unconscious
resonates with the collective unconscious.

Regarding this mean girl dream,
there is a link at the beginning,
so please read ① and ② of the previous post.

4. How to notice synchronicity

I am relatively good at
noticing synchronicity.

The sense of conviction felt with my whole being
when I notice a synchronicity
is very pleasant.

I will summarize how I personally notice synchronicity,
so please feel free to use it as a reference.

① Develop a habit of associating things in daily life
② Observe things by viewing them from multiple perspectives
③ Think about things from multiple directions, not just one

In other words, it is a habit of thinking.
I also think it is about observational skills.

The more open your heart is,
the more the coincidences of the world appear to have meaning
──that is the real thrill of synchronicity.

5. Summary and Next Preview

Thank you for reading until the end.

Next time, I will summarize the physical reactions
resulting from facing my trauma dreams.

How do the changes in the heart that occurred between dreams and reality
eventually manifest in the body?
I have observed this in myself.

What does it mean for dreams
to affect the body?
Look forward to it!
Please come back to visit again♡

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