#19 "If children live with friendliness, they learn to find the world a nice place in which to live"
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Monday✨
Let's learn "Children Learn What They Live" together♫🤗
The final line!
From the poem "Children Learn What They Live"
⭐️If children live with friendliness, they learn to find the world a nice place in which to live⭐️
The world is trustworthy!
I want them to be able to think that way...
That this world is a nice place✨
Looking toward the future!
What will influence a child's future love life, marriage, and family life is...
The scenes of casual, everyday life✨
The experiences of daily life!
What you do together with your child!✨
In everyday life, how parents
interact with their children,
What kind of life are you living!
It speaks for itself when the children themselves become parents.
If parents raise their children with love,
that act of love will surely be passed down from generation to generation.
The role of a parent is to
encourage, forgive, and praise the child
accept, affirm, and acknowledge the child
demonstrate sincerity, kindness, and compassion through one's own actions
Every child
needs parents like this.
All children are our children, carrying our future on their shoulders.
A future where we can reduce war, hunger, and discrimination even a little.
A future where everyone on Earth can become one human family.
So that we can bestow such a future upon our children,
we want to do everything we can.
So that they can believe this world is a good place,
and think that they, too, will do their best to live on.✨
Books speak passionately...
Children are always learning from their parents✨
Children see the future and hope in their parents and adults
The first world a child encounters
Home✨
Through the example of their parents in daily family life,
they learn values and ways of living!
When children grow up and have families of their own,
the model they follow is the home they were born and raised in
Parents want to build a deep bond with their children✨
If you praise, encourage, and acknowledge your children, the home becomes a warm place.
It means forgiving children when they fail and accepting their flaws.
Understanding and caring for your children is what is important.
Even when you must discipline them strictly,
you must not scold them harshly or force them to obey.
It is important to believe in and support your children✨
If there are bonds,
they will become people who feel joy in human connections, he says✨
They are learning about connections and relationships from the warmth of their home, aren't they?☺️
Mutual aid within the family
That is,
the foundation for how to cooperate with others outside the home!
The home is a model for social life✨
What children experience in family life
will be put to use in friendships and school life!
Children are learning about cooperation with others and responsibility.
A family is where each person lives by helping one another.
If they understand that well, children will be able to help and cooperate with people
in their relationships in the outside world as well.
They are learning about give-and-take, aren't they?😊
Relatives and friends
There are many different forms of family.
No matter who raises them,
the most important thing for a child is
to be loved as an irreplaceable being✨
Parents are not the only ones who love their children.
There are relatives, kin, and people surrounding the child.
Parents are not omnipotent!
Relatives who show affection are also strong allies for the child!
Even if relatives are not nearby or happen to be estranged,
we always have friends!
When there are bonds outside the family, such as with relatives and friends,
the child's world expands✨
Children receive good stimulation and have more fun.
They realize that there are people other than their parents who support them,
and they feel reassured.
The more adults there are who show affection, the more there is to learn and emulate,
and the child's world becomes richer.
I have been studying education and psychology.
Through my interactions with children I have met both in and out of work,
and by observing them, I feel the same thing strongly☺️
It is the parents and the adults around them who create the environment
that enriches a child's world✨
Family gatherings
Family gatherings during celebrations and seasonal events are very important for children!
At a gathering of the clan, people might say things like,
"Look how much they've grown!"
"Look how well-behaved they've become!"
"Look how beautiful they've become!"
"Look how strong they've become!"
They voice their surprise one after another upon seeing the children.
The children may feel shy or embarrassed, but
they feel that they are loved and cherished!
By participating in family gatherings even after they grow up,
children feel the bonds of their relatives.✨
Bonds with relatives become emotional support when they eventually stand on their own.
A clan gathering is a kind of ritual,
a time to learn about one's origins, celebrate the connection from ancestors, and tell stories of the past.
Children love to hear stories about their parents' childhoods.
It is a valuable experience to catch a glimpse of a side of their parents they didn't know and to learn about the past.
By listening to their parents' old stories, children understand the passage of time.
They realize that just as their parents were once children, they too, who are children now, will eventually become parents.
Family gatherings can sometimes feel troublesome, but
they allow you to realize that there are many people around you.
I believe the bonds of relatives become an emotional support without us even realizing it.✨
Every day is a fun day!
Even a dull daily routine can become a special day if you change your mood!
You can have fun with your family!✨
In a home filled with laughter, children will, no matter how old they get,
cherish the time they spend with their family.
There was a time when I couldn't enjoy being with my family.
My children began to feel the same way.
They started seeking enjoyment only outside of the family.
I think such periods are natural due to the imbalances in each of us.
Even so, the reason we can continue to cherish our family while our forms change is because of the
time we spent laughing and smiling together.
Bonds✨
That must be it.
The image of a family I remember is the scene of casual, everyday life.
Encouraging, forgiving, accepting, acknowledging,
helping each other, and being considerate,
laughing together, overflowing with smiles,
I want to spend harmonious time together✨
[Summary]
⭐️If raised in a harmonious home, children will come to believe that this world is a good place⭐️
What to do with your children!✨
⭐️Encouraging, forgiving, and praising children
⭐️Accepting, affirming, and acknowledging children
⭐️Demonstrating sincerity, kindness, and compassion through one's own actions
⭐️Believing in and supporting children
⭐️Building deep bonds with children
⭐️Connections outside the family, such as with relatives and friends
⭐️The home as a model for social life
Let's spend time in harmony💕
This world is a good place✨ So that they can think so✨
Learning from "Children Learn What They Live"...
・"Poem 'Children Learn What They Live' - Introduction"
#1 "If children live with criticism, they learn to condemn."
#2 "If children live with hostility, they learn to fight."
#3"If children live with fear, they learn to be apprehensive."
#4 "If children live with pity, they learn to feel sorry for themselves."
#5 "If children live with ridicule, they learn to be shy."
#6 "If children live with jealousy, they learn to feel envy."
#7 "If children live with shame, they learn to feel guilty."
#8 "If children live with encouragement, they learn confidence."
#9 "If children live with tolerance, they learn to be patient."
#10 "If children live with praise, they learn to appreciate."
#11 "If children live with acceptance, they learn to love."
#12 "If children live with approval, they learn to like themselves."
#13 "If children live with recognition, they learn it is good to have a goal."
#14 "If children live with sharing, they learn generosity."
#15 "If children live with honesty, they learn truthfulness."
#16 "If children live with fairness, they learn justice."
#17 "If children live with kindness and consideration, they learn respect."
#18 "If children live with security, they learn to have faith in themselves and in those about them."
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