#11 "If children live with love, they learn to love"
Good morning!
Are you enjoying Golden Week?
Monday✨
Let's learn "Children Learn What They Live" together♫🤗
From the poem "Children Learn What They Live"
⭐️If children live with love, they learn to love⭐️
Love seems simple, yet it is difficult
I want to learn love that is not distorted
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⭐️Build a relationship of loving and being loved!
The most important thing in life✨
Children who are loved by their parents are hardworking and kind.
They grow into people who can affirm and love themselves.
Loving others is the true joy of life✨
Love is a strong and great power❤️
Parental love is the essential soil for a child's growth!
At the same time, it is the sunlight that determines the direction of their growth,
and the water that they cannot do without.
To love a child means to accept their entire existence!
Love is a fundamental human need.
Even after becoming adults, we continue to seek human warmth and emotional connection.
Everyone needs someone who accepts them completely!
Affection is expressed through words and attitudes.
Children are sensitive to this.
(That is truly so... ☺️)
Love is supported by three pillars.
Acknowledging, trusting, and caring for the child ✨
The book says that by being loved in that way,
children learn to love others.
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⭐️ Parental love means accepting unconditionally
Parents who love their children completely
acknowledge and accept everything about them.
They do not wish to change the child into what they want them to be.
If there is a child who feels they won't be loved
if they don't follow instructions
or don't get good grades,
that is a very sad thing.
Love is not something given as a reward for something.
Putting conditions on affection
cannot be called true love...
👉 Parental love is the foundation of a child's life!
Loving a child unconditionally and
spoiling a child are different things.
Accepting everything about a child
while teaching them that wrong is wrong.
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⭐️The Importance of Physical Affection
The desire to connect with others is a fundamental human need.
Touching has a healing effect.
Let's show our children that we love them by having as much physical contact as possible!✨
One mother says her own parents were cold.
Perhaps her parents, too,
were simply unable to express love well
as parents.
Some mothers may want to break free from the patterns inherited from their parents
and show their children plenty of love.
Try to pick up your child as much as possible,
and by trying to touch them whenever you can,
you might notice things you hadn't realized before.
There are surprisingly many opportunities for physical affection every day, and
physical affection is not just for the child,
it is also wonderful for the parents too💖
Through physical contact, not just kind words,
children feel that their parents love them.
As much as possible,
let's hug our children and touch them gently✨
Physical affection is an important expression of love💖🤗
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⭐️The relationship between parents is a model for a child's married life
(Ouch—that hits home😅)
A good couple is a pair with a balanced amount of love for each other.
A couple filled with kindness and consideration
who acknowledge both each other's strengths and weaknesses.
(Oh, that's a relief! I think we're managing that, so I'm reassured!😄)
It is said that what kind of couple the parents are
for better or worse,
greatly influences what kind of partner the child chooses
and what kind of marital relationship they will build.
greatly influences it.
👉 Children see both the good and bad sides of their parents.
As a couple, do Mom and Dad
respect and support each other?
While acknowledging the differences between themselves and others,
are they connected by shared values and love?
For the sake of the child,
let us become a couple that serves as a model for a future happy married life✨
***
A child raised being loved by their parents
knows what a relationship filled with love is like, so
they will be able to build a loving and loved relationship in the future.
[Summary]
⭐️If you love them, children will learn to love others⭐️
A parent's love is the foundation of a child's life!
⭐️Acknowledging the child's entire existence!
⭐️ Loving the child unconditionally!
⭐️ Physical affection is an important expression of love!
⭐️A couple with a balanced amount of love for each other
Acknowledge, believe in, and care for your child✨🤗
I hope they grow into a person who can affirm and love themselves💖
Lessons from "Children Learn What They Live"...
<Back Issues>
・"Poem: Children Learn What They Live - Introduction"
#1 "If children live with criticism, they learn to condemn"
#2 "If children live with hostility, they learn to fight"
#3"If children live with fear, they learn to be apprehensive"
#4 "If children live with pity, they learn to feel sorry for themselves"
#5 "If children live with ridicule, they learn to be shy"
#6 "If parents are always envious, children learn to envy others"
#7 "If children live with shame, they learn to feel guilty"
#8 "If children live with encouragement, they learn confidence"
#9 "If children live with tolerance, they learn to be patient"
#10 "If children live with praise, they learn to appreciate"
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