Self-Introduction ⭐️ Divorced at 47, remarried at 49. The turning point in my life pushed by fortune-telling 🔮
Things to know so you don't become 'dependent' on fortune-telling
“Do you believe in fortune-telling?”
I sometimes feel a bit uncomfortable with this common question.
If you are using the word “believe” to mean “deciding that something is absolutely correct,” then fortune-telling is “something you should not believe.”
Fortune-telling is not about deciding the future, but rather a “question” that helps you re-examine yourself and sheds light on possibilities you haven't noticed yet.
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Whether the result is good or bad, it is a question posed to yourself. It is a tool to re-examine yourself through the “parts that are accurate” or the “parts you want to be accurate.”
And I believe that a fortune teller is a witness who watches over that question with you, and acts like a pin to properly catch and keep your inner voice in your memory.
It’s like something you can look back on later and remember, “Oh, that’s right, at that fortune teller’s place, I truly felt that I wanted to move forward this way.”
A past where I was swayed by fortune-telling
I myself once thought I had “made a huge mistake by following fortune-telling.”
When I was quite young, I was very hesitant about a marriage proposal, so I went to a fortune teller for the first time.
I decided to go through with it after being told, “This is the best chance for marriage,” but after various things happened, the engagement was called off...💦
Even though I felt uncomfortable with my own intuition, I lacked confidence in my judgment and ended up leaving it to someone else.
Thinking back on it now, I realize how shallow I was 💧
Come to think of it, I’ve been drawn to the mystical world since I was a child, and I love star and crescent moon motifs ⭐️🌙
Every time I went to a bookstore, I would look at fortune-telling magazines, and I was the type to always pay attention to TV horoscopes.
But after that incident, I became somewhat afraid of fortune-telling and started to distance myself from it.
After that, I married someone else, started a family, and began days filled with busyness.
—However, 20 years later.
(This was a few years ago.)
I encountered fortune-telling again and was saved by it.
And then, I divorced at 47 and remarried at 49.
In this note, I will write little by little about why I became a fortune teller and how I rebuilt my life ✍️
I will also write about the “Zi Wei Dou Shu” (Purple Star Astrology) that I use in my readings, as well as the Tarot readings that gave me courage during my own turning points.
I also plan to continue my “Reflective Readings: Reading ‘the me of that time’ through the stars” 🔮
Please take a look at those as well if you’d like 💜
The Zi Wei Dou Shu I use is an astrology system that has continued in China for over 1,000 years.
Using your date and time of birth, I create a star map called a “Ming Pan” (Life Chart) to read the flow of your life and your fortune.
The Ming Pan is composed of 12 palaces, each representing various themes such as personality, work, relationships, and marriage.
It is a popular form of fortune-telling in Taiwan and Hong Kong for being “very accurate,” but it is not yet well known in Japan.
Fate cannot be changed. But destiny is something you decide for yourself.
No one can change the fate they were born with.
The family you were born into, the parents who raised you, your traits and nature, and your surrounding environment—you can’t choose those yourself, right?
But, destiny is something you create yourself!
Even twins don’t walk the exact same path of destiny 🌱
Destiny is your own path, built by the accumulation of small choices.
Even if something painful happens and you stop in your tracks, or even if you go back, it’s okay
❗️You can choose your path again as many times as you want, aiming for a better future.
Besides, they say that people who have experienced suffering can be kind because they understand the pain of others ☺️
Life has many seasons, but they don’t always come in the order of spring, summer, autumn, and winter.
Sometimes spring comes suddenly, and then winter follows.
Things that are important change, and relationships and preferences change.
Each time, you laugh, you cry, and you choose your path again.
That is how you revise your destiny’s story, and after feeling a bit relieved that you were able to save your progress...
You might even experience the feeling of looking at the future with a sense of calm.
But while you’re doing that, another problem might come along...
It might just be a constant repetition of that.
Sometimes, you look back at the path you’ve traveled and walk forward while telling yourself, “This path must be the right one!”
That is how you write your own story
📝✨In order to make yourself happy...
I hope the words I write here reach someone’s heart gently 🍀
Lastly ⭐️ My usual activities
🌸 Thank you for reading this post to the end.
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