Happiness for Yourself and Everyone—How to Choose Paths That Attract Good Fortune, as Taught by March 4th

Getters Iida has compiled
a message for each of the 365 days of the year into
a single book.
It is a book that reminds you with gentle words of
the important things we tend to forget in our daily lives.

I personally want to accumulate small realizations every day, so
every morning I summarize the messages from this book into articles.
I hope that today, at the start of your day as well, these will be tips that make your heart a little lighter.

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■ Today's Message (March 4th)

“Both myself and everyone!” attracts happiness

It is not about "only I should be fine" nor "only I should endure," but when you become conscious of
“choices where both myself and everyone are happy,” your luck will improve.

These are words that recommend a way of life that is “neither self-sacrifice nor selfishness, but seeking a path where both are satisfied.”

■ Overview

Forcing yourself by thinking, "Even if I lose out, I must do it for those around me..."
does not last long and wears down your heart.
Also, an attitude of "I only want to benefit myself," while easy in the short term,
loses trust and connections in the long term, and as a result, your luck will diminish.

What is important is
“creating relationships where you are satisfied while also being a plus for those around you.”
This attitude is the foundation that invites good fortune and opportunities—this is an installment with that kind of message.

■ Points

● Stop thinking "only me" or "only everyone"

• If you try to take the benefit only for yourself, jealousy and distrust will arise, and relationships will become strained.

• Conversely, if you sacrifice yourself and act too much for "everyone's sake," your heart will wear out.

● Develop the habit of thinking in terms of "both myself and everyone"

• For work: Be conscious of "actions that provide growth and joy for yourself, and are also a plus for the other party or the company.".

• For family: Discuss and decide on "rules that don't push yourself too hard and are also comfortable for the family.".

● Train in small, everyday situations

Whether it's plans, money, time, chores, or hobbies, just by checking
“Is it okay for me? Is it okay for them?”
every time you make a choice, the sense of “both myself and everyone” will naturally grow.

■ A way of thinking that invites long-term luck

Choices that make both you and the other person smile tend to attract
support, connections, and opportunities to those who make them.

For example, in a marital relationship, rather than one person suppressing their feelings and holding it in,

sharing your true feelings and finding a middle ground that both can agree on is the practice of this message.

■ Conclusion

It is not about only you benefiting, nor is it about only one person working hard—
a way of choosing that values both yourself and the other person will
nurture long-lasting, good relationships.

May today also be a day where you fulfill yourself while being kind to those around you.

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