We compare ourselves to others based only on the 'part we can see'

The article I wrote the other day
“The grass is greener on the other side. But your grass has value, too.”

It was read by more people than I expected,
and honestly, I am very surprised.

After all, other people's lives
always look better, don't they?

I was so happy
that people resonated with it, saying, 'I totally get it!'

And today, once again,
the 'grass on the other side' is shining brilliantly. Haha

Which means...?
'My grass' must also be
shining brilliantly to someone else!!

But, here is one thing.
There is something very important.

We only see a 'part' of that person

That person is amazing.
I envy that person.

When we think that,

we are,only looking at
a 'small part' of that person
that is all.

Just those“shining parts.”They are dazzling and stand out,
so they look good.

Therefore, we don't see the hesitation, conflict,
or trial and error behind that.

And yet, we
only based on the 'part we can see',
we think 'I am nothing...'
and belittle ourselves.

We only see a 'part' of the other person,
and in fact, we only see
a 'part' of ourselves, too.

Moreover,
the other person's part is“the part that looks green,”and
our own part is“the part that doesn't look green.”

Since we compare them like that,
it's fundamentally strange. Haha

Don't you think
that's such a waste??

My own grass might be seen as 'greener' too

For example, looking at me:
・23 years as a TV director
・Taking on new challenges

If you look at it that way,
you might think, 'Everything seems to be going well!'

But in reality,
bullying, power harassment, contract termination,
lack of confidence, balancing family and work

There are many things that didn't go well,
times I worried, and times I came to a standstill.
Actually, even right now,

it's a continuous process of trial and error.

Depending on what part you focus on, how things 'look'
can change infinitely,can't it?

That is precisely why 'dialogue' is necessary.

What I think after having dialogues with many people so far is

that people are the least able to see themselves clearly.

That is the case.

It is difficult to put those into words
on your own.

However,

when you have a 'dialogue' with someone,
they become visible in an interesting way.

When you notice the self you couldn't see, life begins to move.

From the moment someone who thought, 'I'm just...'

realizes, 'Oh, I have these good qualities,'
their choices and actions begin to change.

This is not a special talent, but a change that begins with
“truly seeing yourself”
.

A “dialogue” to discover the brilliance of your own grass right beside you

If you are currently,

・Feeling down from comparing yourself to others
・Not knowing your own strengths
・Feeling uneasy about whether things are okay as they are
・Feeling like there is something you really want to do

If you are in that state,
it may be
a sign that
there is “potential you haven't seen yet”
within you.

Your grass is already green,
you just
haven't realized it yourself yet

That is why, why not take some time
to really
look at yourself
for once?

Through interviews and dialogues with over 1,000 people so far,
I have drawn out
the “true feelings” and “strengths”
that exist within them.

In the dialogue session 《Machiko's Room》,
rather than forcing change,
we will find what is inside you
together🌿

📩 Information about trial sessions
is delivered via our official LINE

“I want to really see myself.”
The moment you think that
is when you change.

【Click here for the official LINE👇】

Thank you
for reading until the end!

Let go of “I'm not good enough…”
and move toward a life where“I trust myself and live.”

Why not draw your own map
and take the helm of your life?

Dialogue Director🌻Machiko

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【Changes in those who have actually taken the session ⇓】

【My own experience of changing through “dialogue” ⇓】