Breaking Free from "It Will Never Get Better"
Previously, you featured a comment I left on the YouTube channel "Soh-kun Abraham".
When my health was at its absolute worst, I discovered
on YouTube "Soh-kun Abraham" and
met him.
"I'll try using the Law of Attraction to see how my reality changes from this terrible state."
That was how it all began.
Since then, I have listened to Soh-kun's videos every single day, many times over.
This is to maintain the "good mood" that is said to be the most important part of the Law of Attraction.
Even when unpleasant things happened, listening to Soh-kun's videos helped me reset my mood.
Even now, when I feel unsettled, it is a great help to me.
Before I knew it, my health had gradually recovered, and even my asthma, which I was told would never get better, improved. Now, I am able to live almost entirely without medication.
When I wrote about this experience in the comments section of Soh-kun Abraham's YouTube channel, I was grateful to have it featured in this article as well.
The explanatory video is here↓
It explains very clearly how to use painful events to move toward fulfilling your desires, as well as the importance of "ease."
"Without unpleasant events, you cannot realize your deeper desires."
"Unpleasant events are part of the flow toward a better situation."
These words truly resonated with me.
They are sure to be the catalyst for regaining your "ease."
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For the past ten years, I have been a full-time homemaker.
Because of my sensitive nature, I felt limited in my ability to work outside the home, and I chose the path of becoming a full-time homemaker when I had my child.
However, somewhere in my heart, I kept thinking,
"Someday, I want to try earning money on my own again."
In fact, there was a time when I worked from home doing translation work.
But as I practiced "living in a way that makes my heart happy" by valuing myself and prioritizing my own feelings,
I found that I could no longer push myself.
Even just a little bit,
I found I could no longer continue doing things that made my heart feel "I don't like this."
From the outside, that might look like
"being unable to work"
or "being unable to fit in with those around me."
In fact, I feel that my in-laws see me that way. Haha.
But from the perspective of the Law of Attraction,
it means "I have finally become able to use my emotions as a compass."
that is.
I had absolutely no idea if "living while valuing my own feelings" and "earning money on my own again" were connected.
I didn't have a shred of confidence, and honestly, I couldn't believe in such a future.
However, one thing was clear:
"I can no longer do things I dislike."
that was it.
So, I decided to stop pushing myself.
I would only do what I want to do, what I can do, and what makes my heart happy.
That is how I gradually became able to stop caring about what others think.
Of course, I wasn't able to shift my mindset successfully from the start.
"Why am I such a weak person?"
"I'm so selfish and pathetic for not being suited for society."
I spent a much longer time blaming myself and feeling depressed like that.
But no matter how depressed I got, just staying there didn't help me move forward.
Even if I blame myself,
nothing good will change.
Once I realized that,
"I'll give up on trying to fit into society."
"I'll accept myself as I am, even if I can't meet people's expectations."
"I'll live while finding my own traits a little amusing."
I started to think that way.
And strangely enough, from the time I started thinking that way, I felt that my antenna for finding ways to earn money by doing what I can started to move little by little.
As I tried out the things I thought of one by one, before I knew it, I was able to earn income on note.
However, when I stopped "meeting people's expectations" and started placing importance on "relaxing at home and staying in a 'good mood' as much as possible," my husband would sometimes nag me about it.
I wrote about my feelings at that time as a comment on the "So-kun Abraham" YouTube channel, and to my surprise, that comment was featured in this article.
The commentary video is here ↓
It explains very clearly how to break out of a "negative loop."
Admittedly, back then I
was ignoring my "nagging husband and in-laws."
Haha.
After listening to So-kun's videos,
I understood that "it's more important to feel good first than to try to change reality."
That is why.
I focused daily
on making myself feel good.
Going to my favorite cafes or hot springs,
people might say, "How dare you do such things when you're just a stay-at-home wife." Haha.
But regardless, I spent my days
making "feeling good" my top priority in life.
And once I became able to use my husband's money without guilt, I started earning an income through note.
The story of how I came to be able to use my husband's money without guilt is a long one, so I would like to write about it in another article.
It could be said that the reason I was able to create such a major change in my reality, both in terms of health and finances, is because of "So-kun Abraham."
"I can't practice the Law of Attraction well."
"I can't keep myself in a good mood."
For those who feel that way, I
wholeheartedly recommend "So-kun Abraham"!
Even if you aren't interested in the Law of Attraction,
his gentle voice and easy-to-understand explanations
will surely get you hooked✨️
So-kun's Kindle books are also very easy to understand,
and I recommend them even to those who have given up on Abraham's books.
Currently, because it is the children's summer vacation, it is quite difficult to maintain a good mood, but I want to enjoy even these circumstances.
Thank you very much for reading until the end.
■ Click here for the story of how I mastered the Law of Attraction ↓
■ I have summarized what I practiced to regain my health here ↓
