It doesn't have to be perfect—March 30th teaches us the 'way of life called resolve'

Getters Iida has compiled a book by selecting
stories that match the dates of the 365 days of the year as much as possible into one volume. It is a book that teaches us, in
gentle words
, important things we tend to forget in our daily lives.
teaches us in gentle words a book that.

I myself also, in my daily life, want to gain new insights, and that is why I continue to
update every day like this. I would be happy if you could read it as a time to pause a little
at the start of your day.

This time, I will introduce 'Getters Iida's Stories to Improve Your Luck in 365 Days', specifically for March 30th,
'It is better to have resolve before having excessive expectations'.

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Overview of the message for March 30th

The theme for this day is,
'Since life does not go according to ideals, let's have "resolve" before excessive expectations.'

In life, marriage, and work, it is
things not going as planned that are the norm. Instead of lamenting that,

people who can have the 'resolve to enjoy things not going well' end up closer to happiness
—that is the kind of thinking being discussed.

Key points to keep in mind

■ The premise is that 'you cannot live according to your ideals'

There has never been anyone who has lived 100% according to their ideals. Everyone is somehow moving forward while making compromises within reality.

'It's not just me who isn't doing well'
—by accepting this, your heart will feel a little lighter.
Life is something that does not go as planned—admitting that is the first step.

■ Failures and setbacks create 'your individuality'

Experiences where things didn't go well and times when things didn't go as planned. These are all
important elements that create a person's individuality and depth.

People are not shaped only by success; rather,
the accumulation of failures and setbacks nurtures that person's individuality.
'The things you couldn't do' are what make you who you are—that is the perspective.

■ 'Resolve' is also necessary for marriage and human relationships

Marriage and human relationships are the same. In the first place, as long as you live with others,

it is natural that things will increasingly not go as planned.

That is precisely whywhat is importantis not just seeking 'to be happy,' but having

the resolve to share in the hardshipsas well. It may be that within that very thing,
true joy and warmth are born.

■What is lacking is not 'fate' but 'resolve'

We tend to blame our environment, others, or fate for why things don't go well, but what is truly

lacking might be 'resolve'.

Understand from the start that'things will not go as planned,'and yet have
the resolve to move forward.With that attitude, you can connect to the strength to
smile as yourself
in any situation.

Summary

Life does not always go as ideally planned.
However, when youaccept that reality,
the scenery you see changes a little.

Instead of excessive expectations,have a quiet resolve.That may be the hint for
living each day lightly and flexibly.

For today as well, including the things thatdo not go as planned,I would like to spend the day accepting them by saying
'even so, it is okay.'

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