Guilt Series: When You Take Off the 'Good Person' Costume
'I'm suffering from guilt.'
—What impression do you get from someone who says that?
At first glance, those words seem sincere.
But I feel that a structure designed to signal 'I am a good person' is lurking beneath them.
Guilt itself is not evil.
However, 'voicing guilt' often becomes an indulgence, replacing it with self-absorption or self-preservation.
In this series, I have used 'guilt' as a lens to unravel the psychological structures behind various situations.
💔 Relationships Edition
👉 The 'Shizuka-chan Phenomenon' of those who revel in the guilt of an affair—the creepiness of signaling you're a good person
👉 The woman who has an abortion and her guilt
.
💼 Work Edition
👉 To those who say 'I'm suffering from guilt' after making a mistake at work—that is just 'signaling incompetence'
👉 To those who say not to buy from SHEIN—the 'justice that doesn't save' created by the Shizuka-chan structure
Guilt tied to justice thinks it is saving itself, but
it corners the most vulnerable places.
🤝 Human Relationships Edition
👉 To those who keep saying 'I'm sorry'—guilt is proof that you are not reflecting
👨👩👧 Parenting Edition
👉 I got angry at my child... To you who are suffering from guilt
Conclusion
Guilt is essentially a 'sensor,' meant to help you re-choose your actions.
However, as long as you wear it as a costume to say, 'I am a good person,' you will never reach what truly matters.
Only when you take off the costume,
does love flow purely to your children,
does trust flow into your relationships,
does resolve flow into your work,
do free choices flow into your loving relationships,
and begin to flow in.
👉 If you want to move beyond guilt and live from your true essence, let's take a deep look together in a withchat session.
💡 This note is for those whose senses move before their logic does.
If, after reading this, you feel
something lingering
rather than just an 'I see'—that might be a sign that your inner self is reacting.
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