Self-Care #343 | Learning from Mitsuo's Glory and Fall: A Healthy Sense of Self-Esteem
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[1] 🍶 Will the popular phase last forever!? Mitsuo, running through the Showa era
From the end of the Showa era to the beginning of the Heisei era, there was a man who shone brightly.
His name was Mitsuo.
Whether at the office or in the bar district, he was a person people whispered about as "that Mitsuo-san."
He was good at his job, and his face was decent enough.
On top of that, he was a good talker.
Popular in his 20s, fast-tracked for promotion in his 30s.
And he even had a marriage and children.
He was truly on the fast track to being a "winner in life."
[2] 😤 "Hey, why can't you even do this?"
However, even such a Mitsuo had a major flaw.
That was—he had absolutely no understanding of his subordinates' feelings.
In a state of "Feelings of people who can't do things? What's that, is it edible?", he would yell at, pressure, and corner his subordinates almost every day.
This was because he had never known failure in his life.
[3] 🔥 The right brain is a good listener, but I don't want to hear about affairs
In such a team of Mitsuo's, there was a particularly excellent subordinate.
Without naming names, there was a person who was more than just Mitsuo's right-hand man; he was known as the "Right Brain."
He was efficient at work and a good listener.
Mitsuo placed his absolute trust in him.
One day, Mitsuo finally opened up to the Right Brain.
"Actually... I'm having an affair."
The woman involved was a female employee more than ten years his junior.
And to make matters worse, there was a suspicion of pregnancy.
The Right Brain screamed "I don't care" (in his heart) while listening without changing his expression.
[4] 🚪 "Right Brain, checking out."
However, the "Mitsuo Theater" that continued day after day began to wear down the Right Brain's spirit.
Realizing that "if things go on like this, I'll collapse too," the Right Brain quietly decided to change jobs.
Mitsuo tried his best to stop him, but it was already too late.
And at almost the same time as the resignation letter, the Right Brain learned a fact he couldn't tell Mitsuo—
It seems the woman Mitsuo was having an affair with had started a relationship with another man.
[5] 🧓 Goodbye ladies' man, hello reality.
His right brain has left, his affair has fizzled out, and in the downtown area, he's treated like an 'old man'.
Mitsuo still wanders the streets at night, clinging to the glory of his younger days.
While he talks about how 'I used to be popular back in the day,' the young person next to him is absorbed in their smartphone.
In life, humility is best.
Better late than never, Mitsuo might be starting to realize it... maybe.
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