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If you are tired of solo parenting and want to be encouraged, read this article.

I recently held this theme project.
【Theme Project】
Please tell us about your solo parenting!

Thanks to everyone's kindness, we received 15 participating articles!!
(Wow!)

I will be introducing them in
several parts.

This is Part 1,
and I want people who are working hard at solo parenting to read these.


These are articles that will encourage you.

Himari Tokimoto says the hardest time for her during parenting was when her children were 1 and 0 years old.

During pregnancy → Tough
Solo parenting at home all day → Didn't feel like I was living
Nursery school drop-off/pick-up → Tough in many ways
Putting them to sleep → Too harsh, with no sense of shame left

Shaking with fear.
I, who don't have a second child yet, was trembling.

But the hope found in the midst of that toughness,
and the moment that hope was realized,
I feel like I was shown a side that isn't just tough.

This is an article I want to read againwhen the time comes for my second child to be born.



“Every day is chaos, and maybe it's okay if you can find the fun in that chaos!?”
says sunny, who is raising two children solo.

While saying every day is chaos, the writing that makes you feel that “strength to enjoy the chaos” is very reassuring.

The resolve and strength to say that!

The bear video introduced here makes you think,
“Even bears get flustered with parenting! So it can't be helped for me too!”
This is an article I definitely want people who need a boost to read!




A “live report on solo parenting on the fly” by stay-at-home dad Hamibaccho.

Taking on solo parenting for two without preparation was full of things that didn't go well and a series of miscalculations.

Even though it should be tough, you are drawn in by the sense of presence and dynamism.

It's an article that clearly shows the full picture of what happens when you take on solo parenting with momentum. Lol

The final words pierce the heart.
“If you're going to leave it to someone, you must first experience that hardship yourself.”
There is a view that can only be seen after experiencing hard mode.I truly felt he is a model stay-at-home dad.



I think everyone has “acted like a mother” at some point.

There is an image of a good mother, isn't there?
Acting that out is, as Sakaki-san says, exactly like “customer service.”

But if you keep acting forever,
it certainly gets tiring.

If you're tired, you're tired.
It made me think that maybewe can be parents as we are.



Moegi-san's article, which chronicles solo parenting for siblings with a 4-year age gap.

It seems the hardest time for solo parenting was when the younger child was a baby and the older child became an elementary school student.
I see, so this is the “mountain”... it also served as preparation for the future.


“I have no choice but to do my best,there are no adults to rely on.”
Those words
ooze with the resolve and loneliness of solo parenting.
Even so, Moegi-san overcame it,

and says it has become much easier now.
I want to say from the bottom of my heart, you did your best!
I will also dream of such a day and do my best!!


Afterword
Reading the articles of everyone doing their best in various situations and positions was an encouraging experience.
Let's continue to do our best with solo parenting!

Yukan🎏


I have also published a book on solo parenting.
Please take a look if you would like.

I am on parental leave, but I have reached my limit with solo parenting.

A book to make solo parenting easier for first-time moms

A comparative guide to solo parenting


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