To you, who are exhausted from seeking the right answer. The true answer is within you.

I am swaying.
My heart is swaying again today.

Like swaying between waves,
Like swimming through a gentle breeze,
I am swaying.

Introduction | Aren't you tired of 'things that seem like the right answer'?

The roles demanded by society.
The ideal way to live.
Things that seem like the right answer, which we are told 'should be this way'.

Without realizing it,
we live surrounded by many 'right answers'.

Clinging desperately to those right answers,
even though we don't know who decided them,
before we know it, we are exhausted.

Is the environment you are in really what you want?
Is what you are doing right now something you truly 'want to do' from the bottom of your heart?

Hey, what if...

What if there was no 'right answer' from the beginning, and
what your heart feels is the right answer itself?

From here on,
this isn't a story about 'let's stop looking for the right answer'.

“Let's reclaim the right answer, not from the outside, but from within yourself.”
I want to talk about that with you.

Chapter 1 | We are too tired of 'right answers'

The right answer of people who have it all together.
The path of successful people.
The way of life that seems to be going well, which we often see on social media.

While using those as references,
we gradually try to fit ourselves into them.

Before I knew it,
I started thinking about 'am I not wrong?'
rather than 'what do I want to do?'

Even though I'm actually tired,
I convince myself that 'I should still be able to do my best'.
Even though I feel uncomfortable,
I swallow it, saying 'everyone else is doing it'.

The more I chase the right answer,
the more my heart feels like it's drifting away for some reason.

Even so,
we cannot let go of the right answer.

I don't want to be wrong.
I don't want to be left behind.
I want to live properly.

That feeling itself
is very straightforward,
and very human.

Before we knew it,
'clinging to the right answer' became the goal,
and the voice of the heart was put on the back burner.

Is the direction you are working so hard in right now
really what your heart desires?

You don't have to answer that question
today.

Just,
you don't have to deny yourself
for having such a question arise.

Chapter 2 | Seeking the right answer is not a weakness

Many people blame themselves for seeking the right answer,
saying 'it's because I have a weak will'
or 'it's because I don't have a core'.
But you know,

seeking the right answer is not a weakness.
I think it is


a habit of someone who has tried to live properly.In your life so far,you may have been scolded if you made a mistake,

felt out of place if you couldn't read the room,
or been left behind if you failed.
The more a person has accumulated such experiences,
the more they start to check,

'Is this right?'
'Am I not wrong?'
That was wisdom to protect yourself.
You just wanted to feel safe.

You just didn't want to get hurt.

You just wanted to survive properly.
So,
the fact that you developed the habit of seeking the right answer

is something you should actually be proud of.
Because it is proof that you have lived properly until now.
But you know,

it might be time to reconsider

whether that 'habit for survival'

is still necessary for you now.
'Seeking the right answer' was necessary when you were a child,
or back when you were desperate.
But you now

have had many more experiences than back then,
and you have your own senses and choices.

And yet,
if you keep living based on 'someone else's right answer'
out of old habits,

of course it will become painful.
So what I want to convey here is,
not 'stop looking for the right answer'.
It's that


you don't have to keep leaving the right answer to the outside.


More than the world's right answer,more than someone else's success route,I want you to bring 'how your heart feels'back to the table once.

That is enough.
In the next chapter,
I will talk about how to
'reclaim the right answer within yourself'.

It's okay to be swaying,

let's talk about the feeling of choosing while trusting your own heart.
(It's okay.
You already have it.)

Chapter 3 | Your right answer is already within you

Having read this far,
you might still be thinking somewhere in your heart.

'But what if I'm wrong?'
'I still don't have confidence'
'I don't know if I can trust my own senses'

Yeah, I understand.
It's natural for that feeling to come up.

But I'll say it clearly.

Your right answer is already within you.

It might not always be visible
as a perfect answer,
or as clear words.

But,

・I feel like I can breathe a little easier
・I don't have a reason, but I feel a little relieved
・I feel like this is more like me

That small feeling,
that is already a perfectly valid 'right answer'.

A right answer
doesn't have to be something you can say with your head held high.

It doesn't have to be something you can explain to someone else.
It doesn't have to be something you are full of confidence about.

The direction your heart gives a small nod to, saying 'Yeah, this way'.
That is enough.

It's okay to sway.
It's okay to be lost.
It's okay if what you choose changes from yesterday to today.

Because as long as people are alive, they change.

There are strong days,
and there are weak days.

Even so,
if you chose it as yourself that day,
it is properly 'your right answer'.

There is no life without mistakes.
But you know,
a life of choosing while swaying is much richer than a life of continuing to ignore your own heart.
If you are currently

suffering because you are trying too hard to match someone else's right answer,
it's okay to stop for a moment.

Take a deep breath and ask yourself this.
'What do I want to do?'

'How do I feel?'
It's okay if the answer doesn't come out right away.

Your silent heart is also in the middle of listening.
You are no longer

in a place where you just trace someone else's right answer.
From now on,

you can trust your own heart and choose.
It's okay.

You can choose properly.
Even while swaying,

even while lost,

people who can move forward with their own hearts are strong.Now,

what kind of right answer shall we choose today?
The one who gets to decide that

is always you yourself.🧚🏻✨

Conclusion | It's okay to make your own heart the right answer

There is a belief I have always cherished.

“The one who will always be with you is yourself.
Both until now, and from here on out.”

Honestly, I don't know what others think of me.
Sometimes I am misunderstood,
and sometimes I cannot meet expectations.

Even so.

I never wanted to let go of the choice to not hate myself.

Rather than the right answer to be liked by someone,
choose what does not betray your own heart.

It doesn't have to be perfect.
It's okay to waver.
It's okay to be lost.

Even so,
if you can say, “I wanted to choose this,”
then that is truly your right answer.

The right answer is not something you find.
It is about quietly, again and again,
returning to your own heart.

Please, I want you to believe in
the step you chose today.

You no longer have to
live by someone else's right answer.

From now on,
let's make your own heart the right answer.

It's okay.
You are watching over yourself properly🧚🏻
You are definitely moving forward.

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