I asked ChatGPT to explain 'why a normal life is the hardest,' and it was profound

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Many people think, 'A normal life is fine.' But when I asked ChatGPT, I realized that 'normal' is the most ambiguous and difficult goal of all.

This time, I will introduce the reasons for this in a ranking from 10th to 1st place.

'I don't need to be successful.'

'If I'm normally happy, that's enough.'

Many people have probably said these words
at least once.

I was the same.

I don't need flashy success.
I just want to live peacefully and normally.

But then, I suddenly realized.

What exactly is that 'normal'?

So I asked ChatGPT.

The answer that came back
was deeper than I imagined.

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10th Place: The standard for normal differs from person to person

Someone who thinks an annual income of 3 million yen is normal.
Someone who thinks 6 million yen is normal.

Married is normal.
Single is also normal.

In other words,

There is no common rule for normal.

It is ambiguous from the start.

9th place: What is 'normal' changes with the times

The normal of the past.
The normal of today.

They are completely different.

Lifetime employment.
Marriage age.
How to own a home.

Normal is not fixed;
it is something that moves with the times.

Even if you chase it, it changes.

8th place: SNS destroyed 'normal'

An era where you can see other people's lives.

Travel.
Marriage.
Income.
Glittering daily life.

The more you see that,

the more your own normal
suddenly feels insufficient.

Comparison destroys normal.

7th place: The more you aim for normal, the easier it is to erase your individuality

Reading the room.
Not standing out.
Living safely.

As a result,

it is easy to put your true feelings and what you want to do
on the back burner.

Some people protect their normal
and lose themselves.

6th place: Normal has high maintenance costs

Working.
Protecting the household budget.
Maintaining health.
Managing human relationships.

Continue this for a long time.

Actually, it is quite advanced.

Normal is not easy; it is a skill of consistency.

5th place: It is hard to be satisfied even when things are normal

Normal life has little stimulation.

There are no big successes. There are no big failures either.

That is precisely why,

it is hard to notice happiness.

The quieter the happiness, the easier it is to overlook.

4th place: Anxiety does not disappear even if you choose a normal life

A stable company. A safe choice. The conventional path.

Even so, you still feel anxious.

Because,

the cause of anxiety lies not in the choices, but in the heart.

3rd place: There is no right answer to a normal life

If it is success, there are numbers.

But for normal, there are none.

Is this okay? Is this enough?

You cannot check the answers.

This is where it gets painful.

No. 2: The more you seek normalcy, the more you live by others' standards

People around you got married.
Bought a house.
Got promoted.

Then,

it's easy to think,

I have to do that too.

But that,
isn't necessarily what you want.

No. 1: Because normalcy is something you create yourself

This is what the AI ranked as number one.

Normalcy,
is not something that is given to you.

Annual income.
Family.
Job.
Where you live.

What defines normalcy?

You have to decide that for yourself.

In other words,

the reason a normal life is difficult is,

because it is free.

'I'm fine with normal' was a profound wish

What you realize when looking at the ranking is,

normal = easy

is not the case.

Rather,

・Not being swayed by comparisons
・Having your own standards
・Continuing to protect your daily life

It is quite difficult.

In the past, I

used to say I was fine with being normal, while
chasing someone else's version of normal.

But now,

I believe that the daily life where you feel at peace is what is truly normal.

I think.

If you are currently

worrying about whether

it is okay to stay as you are,

first, ask yourself:
Whose 'normal' are you living?

It might be time to re-evaluate that.

In life,
satisfaction is more important than flashiness.

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