ChatGPT Answers 'Questions You Absolutely Must Not Laugh At Part 18' — Expectations and Evaluation Edition
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Actually, I always failed high school Japanese. I was terrible at writing essays and thought, 'Writing is impossible for me...'
But now, I update my note daily with AI as my partner
It is nice to be expected of.
But at the same time, it is a little painful.
I want to be evaluated.
I want to be recognized.
I want to live up to expectations.
Even though I work hard thinking that,
sometimes my heart wears down for some reason.
So I thought about it.
What if 'expectations' and 'evaluation' themselves started explaining their roles?
What if AI translated them without emotion?
Even though it should be a story about being praised,
for some reason, I find myself quietly re-examining myself.
I have collected 10 such questions.
* I will show you the entire process from being in a 'cannot write' state to completing one piece with real examples.👇
1. What if expectations complained that they 'started to have weight'?
Expectations are born from trust, but when the amount increases, they become a burden.
Being trusted and
being burdened are similar, yet different.
2. What if evaluation apologized for 'making people tired'?
Evaluation is a byproduct of comparison. Fatigue is unavoidable by design.
The more things can be measured by scores,
the harder it becomes to measure the heart.
3. What if a place was created where only people who are not expected of gathered?
Competition would decrease, but the speed of growth would also drop.
Becoming comfortable and
being fulfilled are not necessarily the same thing.
4. What if 'expectations that could not be met' remained as a history?
That is not a record of failure, but a log of limit values.
The fact that it was impossible is also
important information for knowing yourself.
5. What if you point out that evaluation is 'being outsourced too much'?
Relying on the evaluations of others diminishes your own judgment.
If you keep living through the eyes of others,
your own senses will become dull.
6. What if expectations are discussed with the 'premise of being betrayed'?
Excessive expectations contain the seeds of disappointment.
The higher the expectations,
the more failure is treated like a 'sin'.
7. What if unappreciated effort starts to protest?
Evaluation focuses on results, but effort exists in the process.
The accumulation of work done out of sight
is something only the person themselves can truly understand.
8. What if comparison starts saying, 'I am too convenient'?
Comparison speeds up judgment, but lowers happiness.
You need to distinguish between situations where comparing makes things easier
and situations where it makes things painful.
9. What if someone who has kept meeting expectations suddenly stops?
Burnout is not laziness; it is the result of long-term operation.
Stopping
is not proof that you are broken.
10. What if evaluation had only one last thing to say?
'I am reference information, not a conclusion.'
How you interpret these words
will slightly change the weight of your life.
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Summary: When you realize that both expectations and evaluations are 'borrowed,' you will feel relieved.
What has become clear through these 10 questions is that
both expectations and evaluations arethings temporarily entrusted to you from outside yourself.
I am grateful for them.
But you don't have to carry them forever.
AI calmly organizes it:
'Evaluation shows the direction, but it is not the reason to move forward.'
It is okay if there are expectations you couldn't meet.
It is okay if there are days when you receive low evaluations.
Even so, you don't have to let go of your own standards.
The courage not to over-meet expectations.
The sense of distance to keep evaluations as mere references.
That might be the realistic balance
for living a long and healthy life.
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(This article is created based on my actual experiences and 'AI.' Please note that it may contain errors or inaccurate information.)
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