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A story about the three benefits I gained from boosting my self-expression skills on note

I have continued to post on note
every day for 300 days.

I am still continuing to do so even now.

Thanks to that, as a result of
making many posts,
I feel that my "self-expression skills have improved."

"Self-expression skills" are...

the ability to convey
your own opinions clearly
.

This time, I will talk about the
self-expression skills I gained
by continuing to post on note every day.

It is a story about the three benefits I gainedas a result of those"self-expression skills"
improving.


The three benefits are...

① Dialogue ability has improved dramatically,
  and I can convey my thoughts to others

② Because it clears up my thinking,
  I can listen to others' opinions

③ Skills useful in an online society

These are the three.

I will explain them one by one.




✔ Self-expression skills are essential
  for improving dialogue

Thanks to continuing to post on note every day,
my dialogue ability has improved tremendously.

Dialogue ability means listening to the other person's opinion,
and breaking down your own opinion to convey it.

In other words, it is
“playing catch in conversation.”

To play catch in conversation, you must listen to and understand what the other person is saying, and then provide a response appropriate to that content.


If the person you are talking to is talking about the weather, and you suddenly change the subject to "what's for dinner tonight...", the conversation will not work as a game of catch.


Furthermore,
self-expression skills are very useful for
keeping the conversation going.


Interpret the topic you heard from the other person in your own way and respond in a way that matches them.

Sometimes, even when you have a dissenting opinion, you speak in a way that gets the other person to understand.

It is precisely because your self-expression skills are high that you can practice sophisticated conversational exchanges.





✔ By clearing your thoughts,
you can listen to the other person's opinions

Every day, at a set time,
write down the thoughts in your head
in a place called note.

Thanks to outputting every day,
“thought resetting” becomes possible.

“Thought resetting” means
setting aside your own ideas
and returning to a zero state for a moment.

Since you don't have to be bound by fixed ideas,
you can easily make new information your own.


Also, through “thought resetting,”
you can notice the biases in your own thinking.

“So this is the kind of thinking I have.”

“I see,
this would make a good solution.”

“For the other person,
this perspective might be easier to understand…”

Because you identify these…
tendencies in your own thinking,
you can avoid having a
biased perspective when offering opinions to others.





✔ Why self-expression skills
are essential in an online society

Finally, self-expression skill is
an indispensable ability in this day and age.

The era we live in is
truly an “online society.”

In recent years, we have entered an era
where society is increasingly driven
through the internet.

The network is a system that connects
a wide variety of people in an instant.


The total population of Japan is 120 million.

The total world population is 7.875 billion.

By using the internet, you can connect
with such an astronomical number of people.

When surrounded by so many people,
each individual's personality becomes important.

Common personalities are familiar,
and people will likely get bored and ignore them.

That is precisely why you need to say:

“This is the kind of person I am,”
“I can provide useful information,”
“This is the perfect information for you.”

Such strengths in self-expression
make your individuality stand out.

Rather than being one of the "rabble",
to become a one-of-a-kind presence,
self-expression is essential.

The "rabble"refers to...
A disorganized group, like crows gathering and making noise.
A collection of worthless entities.


Indeed, precisely because we live in an online society,
self-expression can be a vital skill.





✔ If you want self-expression skills,
get them easily on note

This time,
I shared the story of how I boosted my self-expression through note
and gained three benefits.


To summarize...


You can play catch in conversation,
throwing the ball exactly where the other person wants it.

Since your thinking is always clear,
you can respond instantly even to new opinions.

Because it is an essential skill in an online society,
it will help you succeed in your future life.

The three points above are truly
benefits I obtained
precisely because I boosted my self-expression.

And everything
is something I was able to get
precisely because I posted on note.

The "self-expression"that is essentialin modern society.

Why not try using note to
gain these for yourself?😍

See you next time.
Goodbye.

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