My article was featured🍀✨The future that changes with the words we say to children✨｜What I want to convey as someone who was afraid to sell paid articles📖 Gratitude | Article | Connection | Self-disclosure | Communication | ☘️🐞Listen to 'Haru no Hi'🎶

May your days be filled with gentle joy and springtime blessings.



May your days be filled with gentle joy and springtime blessings...🍀

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🌸I want to express my heartfelt thanks

Thank you for the precious 'likes,' for choosing to follow me, and for your kind comments.

And to those who included my work in your magazines.

I am truly happy for each and every one of them, and I can feel the warmth of someone on the other side of the screen.

Due to a 'like' error, I cannot press the button, but I will gradually follow you back.

Thank you♡

🌹This time, my paid article was
featured by Rin Koshiba!

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Not only did you purchase it, but you also gave it a high rating and left a comment.

And on top of that, you introduced it in your own article—

It is rare for someone to introduce my paid articles, so in that moment, my chest felt so full that I could barely breathe, and my emotions just overflowed.

Joy, surprise, and gratitude.

For a while, I couldn't stop my hands from shaking.

Parenting is a continuous series of trial and error.

I believe Rin Koshiba is someone who can perceive the depths of people's hearts precisely because she has been hurt herself.

Touching upon one's own true feelings is not an easy thing to do.

How much she must have worried and struggled to reach that point—

It is beyond my imagination.

“Childhood experiences influence how we see the world”

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That is precisely why I felt warmth and depth in every single one of those words.

I am so grateful that you received it this way, and even went as far as to introduce it.

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I am truly grateful that you found value in my article.

Thank you so much♡

☘️Honestly, I was afraid to sell paid articles

Even while having experiences like this,
to be honest—

I was afraid of "selling."

There was always a part of me that hit the brakes when it came to saying, "Please buy this."

Even though I knew it was necessary in my head, my heart just couldn't keep up.

🐞Why am I afraid? Looking back at the past

When I think back, in my younger days, around me there were,

religious solicitations, insurance sales, sales of cosmetics or corrective undergarments, invitations to new jobs, and many other "requests" and "recommendations."

I was stirred up with anxiety and fear, or invited out after being treated to a meal.

There were also times when I was asked for favors in exchange for gifts.

At that time, my boundaries with others were vague, and I was very bad at saying no.

I was afraid of ruining the atmosphere. I was afraid of disappointing the other person.

Before I knew it, I was always prioritizing others over my own feelings.

When money was involved—it became painful all at once.

Even though it was just saying no, my heart felt like it was being worn away.

It felt like a heaviness remained in my chest long after I had left the scene.

I think that experience still remains within me today.

Now, I have become able to have the courage to politely decline.

🌼Even so, I loved 'conveying things'

Even for someone like me, it was different when it came to customer service and sales work.

The things I truly thought were good naturally turned into words.

Even without me recommending them, customers would choose them, saying, 'That looks good.'

Not through pressure, but being chosen based on trust.

I really loved that feeling.

🍀Things I want to cherish

That is precisely why what I want to cherish now is,

Not 'selling,' but 'delivering.'

Without forcing it on others, and without using methods that make me feel distressed.

Delivering what I truly believe is important to the people who need it.

That is the kind of posting I want to do.

🌷What I want to deliver

The reassuring words for children that I want to share now are,the greatest gift you can give for free.

It is nothing special, nor is it difficult.

With just a single word, a child's heart can suddenly feel lighter.

The accumulation of those moments builds a 'world where a child can feel safe and trust.'

Rin-san, as you shared, it alsomakes the parent's own heart lighter.

💐About the rest of this

Regarding 'Magical words you can say to your children starting today'.

・Words we tend to say without thinking
・Rephrasing to protect a child's heart
・Specific phrases you can use right away

are summarized in an easy-to-understand way.

If you,

・Want your child to grow into an adult with flexible strength
・Are worried about the words you use with your child
・Often feel self-loathing after speaking too harshly
・Want to communicate more gently

This content will surely be helpful for parents of elementary school-aged children who wish for their child's happiness.

I hope it reaches only those who need it.

If any of this resonates with you right now,
I would be happy if you read it.

🌻Thank you for reading this far

Lastly, once again.

To Rin Koshiba.

Thank you again and again for receiving my paid article in this way and for even introducing it to others♡

There is a warmth in your words, Rin, that gently nestles up to people's hearts.

That is surely something born from the time you have spent worrying, facing, and overcoming things yourself.

As you move forward on your path as a counselor,
I believe that your kindness will save the hearts of many people.

I am cheering you on through the connection we made on note.

To the readers who have read this far.

If you are currently struggling even a little with parenting or your daily interactions, I want you to please remember this.

That it is okay not to be perfect.

That it is okay to have days when things don't go well.

Parents and children alike, everyone is immature and simply doesn't know themselves yet.

You can change your words starting from this very moment today.

Even if it's just one word, try choosing kind words for the person in front of you or for yourself.

That alone will change the atmosphere right in front of you.

I believe that a small step taken by an adult through their words leads to 'peace of mind' and 'trust' for a child.

If you'd like, please read the article and try using just one kind word starting today.

At your own pace.

Words create the future: from now → to tomorrow → for the child (and yourself).

There is one last person I would like to thank.

To Taze-san

Thank you so much for always being the first to feature my work in your magazine♡

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I don't know why, but the articles that Taze-san comments on always receive many likes.

Thank you very much for introducing my paid article the other day.

It became a mix of personal stories, but thank you so much for reading this far♡

The fact that you read this text makes me happy just by itself.

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"Harunohi" Aimyon

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