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Zero qualifications, zero titles. The result of taking action as the 'current me' who isn't perfect

Dialogue sessions that nurture your 'true self' without comparison or pretense.
Through 'Machiko's Room'
Supporting people who live authentically.
I'm Machiko, a dialogue director🌻

I'm giving my all and enjoying both
my 'dialogue' work and my work as a TV director✨


🌻When I couldn't escape the loop of 'searching for what I lack'


Well, I started dialogue sessions with clients last month and am currently building up my practice.

I've been a TV director for 23 years, but as a dialogue director, I'm still a 'fledgling'.

I don't have any impressive qualifications or big titles, but I started my 'dialogue session' service with the experience and passion I've accumulated as a human being named 'me'.

It hasn't been certified by a professional, nor is there proof through qualifications. But I believe there is meaning and value in what I do, because I am 'me'—the only one in the world, unlike anyone else.

But until very recently, I was thinking things like this:

Can I really do this?...
There are tons of people better than me...
I've 'only' ever done TV work...
I have no qualifications, no titles...

......How about that??
Searching for what I lack, comparing myself to others, lack of confidence
I've managed to have it all, haven't I??
Haha


Who on earth would want to follow someone like me? No, I'm just full of anxiety (rhetorical question).
So, what should I do?

The conclusion I reached was
to 'have confidence
without any basis'.

🌻Is confidence something you get from others? Or something you hold yourself?

Everyone feels anxious.
I wonder how many people are truly full of confidence. No, actually, how does one even become full of confidence?

Would you be full of confidence if you became Shohei Ohtani?
Would you be full of confidence if you became Sanma Akashiya?
Are Horiemon and Hiroyuki always full of confidence?

Come to think of it, even Shohei Ohtani said, 'There are still things I want to achieve; this is just a passing point.'Even though his current state isn't 'perfect' to him, from my perspective, he is overflowing with confidence.

It's not that you have confidence because you are perfect!

When I thought about it that way,I realized that confidence isn't something you get from someone else. It's something you hold yourself. Don't think about having others build your confidence for you.

For example, if you think you can have confidence because 100 people told you 'You're the best!', what happens when you give a speech in front of 1,000 people and 900 of them might be thinking 'Who is that guy?'? As soon as that happens, do you go back to thinking, 'I'm no good, I have no confidence, I have no value'?

Or,do you take on the challenge with the 'confidence that I can do it' and courage, no matter who you are—in other words, do you move forward by becoming a 'person who has confidence'?

If you can't control people's reactions or feelings, then my current view is that it should definitely be the latter!

Even though I don't have qualifications, titles, or a track record yet, I will move forward with my vector pointed toward brightening my client's future, just as I am, completely exposed and straightforward.I feel that it is very important to go with my 'true self'.

🌻 The joy of being told, 'I chose you because it's you, Machiko-san'

A client who chose me as I am told me this:


“I decided to ask you because it’s you, Machiko-san.”


I'm so happy!!
There are no words better than that!!

And,I am working with all my heart, fully utilizing everything I have right now to make sure this person is happy! I am committed to it!As a partner, I think about my clients every day (it's like being in love; that's how much I absolutely want them to be happy. Of course, whether they achieve their goals depends on the client's own words and actions).

To that end, I am also powering up myself! That is my enthusiasm.

🌻 Don't wait for perfection, do what you can now

“I have to be a perfect version of myself.”

If that were true, when would it ever happen? Will you be perfect in 10 years? 20 years? Perhaps that day will never come. What does 'perfect' even mean in the first place?

That is whyI contribute with the 'maximum I have right now.'

Do you have something you want to do,
something you want to achieve?

When will you take action to do it?
Will you act today, tomorrow, or a year from now?
Or will you give up and say 'I won't do it'?
Every choice is up to you.

Don't wait for perfection, just act.
That kind of decisiveness is also necessary.
As if to remind myself,
I keep breaking out of my shell and taking on challenges.

Make your own decisions and take your own actions! You always create your own future

Even I, who had nothing,
have been able to take action,
so you will definitely be okay!!

🌻 When will you take action?

I myself used to focus only on what I 'didn't have' and felt anxious, but there are things I only understood because I took action.

Confidence is not something given to you by someone else, but something you can cultivate little by little yourself. And you can start with the 'you of today,' not after you become perfect.

If you feel,
“I can't take the first step toward what I want to do” or “I want to change my current situation but I'm anxious,”
please try receiving the
free benefits I offer on my official LINE account🌻


💐 Two major benefits for adding my official LINE account 💐
🎁 A personality diagnosis to find out the true nature of 'Am I okay just like this?'
🎁 Three dialogue exercises to loosen your limiting beliefs

Both are content that will help you
notice your own inner voice and values,
and become a trigger for changing
“I wonder if I'm okay like this”
into “This is what I want to do.”

Furthermore, for 8 days only after registering,
I am also offering a 90-minute individual consultation (5,500 yen)
for free.

Organize your inner confusion and
move toward a future where you can think,
not 'this is fine,' but 'this is what I want'🌈
I would be happy if I could be of help to you✨

▼ Click here for the official LINE and to receive the benefits

Thank you for reading until the end!

See you again✨

Dialogue Director Machiko🌻



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