Safe Ordering Methods for Sensitive People | [Proposal for Customers] ①
Hello. This time, as a hairdresser who is also shy, I have compiled some ways to communicate, thoughts, and mindsets that will allow even those who are overly considerate or sensitive to place orders with peace of mind.
Hair salons can sometimes make you feel a little nervous, hesitant, or cause you to push yourself by saying "I'm fine" even when you are actually feeling uneasy...
I feel that especially sensitive people tend to prioritize others and often put their own feelings on the back burner.
I would like to share some "tips for ordering with peace of mind" so that you can find a hairstyle that is uniquely yours without pushing yourself or getting tired.
I want you to always look forward to your favorite hair salon, and I don't want you to end up disliking the salon experience. That is how I feel.
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People who are overly considerate or sensitive often "prioritize the other person over themselves" at the hair salon.
For example, saying "I'll leave it to you" even when you are actually unsure.
To ensure you don't feel even a little bit constrained, and to help you go to the salon with peace of mind and be able to place your order while feeling happy,
I have summarized 7 points based on my own thinking.
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① The idea of communicating your safety conditions first
Many people try to communicate their "ideal hairstyle."
But for sensitive people, that might not actually be the only important thing.What is more necessary, I think, is the "framework in which you feel safe." It's like the range you are comfortable with.・I don't like it when it's too flashy
・I feel uneasy with sudden changes
・I like a calm impression
This kind of information becomes a blueprint for the hairdresser. Before the perfection of the finish,
sharing your "safe range, such as your personal taste"
will significantly change your level of satisfaction.
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② Use photos as a "sharing of sensations" rather than for reproduction
Words are interpreted differently by different people.
But for atmosphere, photos are definitely the fastest way.People who are too considerate of others spend a lot of energy trying to put things into words.That is exactly why it is perfectly fine to rely on photos and try to align your sensations.
The important thing is not "I want to look like this person," but rather
・I like this softness
・I feel calm with this naturalness
・This vibe makes me feel safe
By communicating these sensations, the hairdresser can make adjustments from there.
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③ Past experiences you disliked are the best hints
Actually, there are many people who are clearer about "things they want to avoid" than their ideals.
・I felt uneasy because it was thinned out too much
・I didn't feel calm because it was cut too short
・I got tired because it was too flashy
These are not just complaints; I think you should treat them as your own personal instruction manual.
As long as you are mindful of the tone of your words, sharing them without hesitation will result in more careful proposals.
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④ Say that you want to decide while consulting
You don't have to think of yourself as indecisive just because you can't make an immediate decision. It just means you are a "person who wants to think things through properly."
"I'm the type who wants to decide while consulting."
This one sentence will change the atmosphere.
Good hairdressers value that person's pace.
And you are the one who makes the final decision.
In this part, feel free to take the lead just a little bit.
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⑤ Feeling uncomfortable is a talent
I think there are people whose sensors for discomfort are sharp.
This is because of your high sensitivity.
Don't you often find that the more you swallow it by saying "it's fine," the more you feel uneasy about it later?
Communicating it with just a few words is perfectly fine.
"I'm just a little concerned about the bangs," that alone is enough.
A hair salon is not just a place to complete a look,
it is also a place to make adjustments together.
Try asking for an objective perspective, or gently express your feelings of unease as a question to make adjustments.
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⑥ Silence is not a bad thing
People who try too hard to keep the conversation going get tired.
Because the silence feels awkward, you end up trying hard to talk.
If you want to spend your time quietly, it's okay to say so.
"I'd like to spend my time quietly today."
This is not being selfish; it is a preference.
From a professional's point of view,
it is helpful to get hints on how you want to spend your time.
We don't have to force the conversation to be lively either.
Your relaxation is the top priority.
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⑦ The courage to stop being a "good customer"
The thing that lowers your satisfaction the most is being too considerate. It makes you tired.
The more you say "I'm fine,"
the further you get from your true feelings, I think.
Don't be overly considerate.
It is okay to tell your hairdresser your thoughts and how you are feeling right now.
A hair salon is a place to receive a service and a time to groom yourself.
Just keep in mind not to be selfish as it is a public space.
A hair salon is not a place to just conform; it is a place to groom yourself while enjoying the process.
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Finally,
I believe that many people actually feel that because they have a strong ability to sense people and the atmosphere, they can get mentally exhausted or feel uneasy about gaps in communication with others.
That is exactly why I think it is okay to prioritize yourself more when it comes to your hairstyle.
Being able to obtain a hairstyle that suits you while feeling comfortable.
I hope that the hair salon becomes a place where you can naturally groom yourself, rather than a place that wears you down. So please enjoy it.
Thank you very much.
Thank you for reading until the end.
Have a great day today.