Saved by a child's 'Why?'

When raising children, I am swayed every day by their 'Why?' questions. Just after dinner yesterday, my 5-year-old son asked me out of the blue.

'Hey Dad, why do people sleep?'

I involuntarily stopped the plate I was holding in my hand. Things that are obvious to adults are big mysteries to children, aren't they?

▪️Hard to answer, but makes you think

When I answered, 'Maybe it's because you'll get tired if you don't,' my son replied, 'Then aren't there people who stay energetic without sleeping?'
Hmm, the debating skills of a 5-year-old are formidable.

But what I realized through this exchange is that thinking about 'why things are the way they are' helps keep my own mind flexible. Conversations with children are a time for growth for adults, too.

▪️My daughter's calm retort

My 12-year-old daughter, who was listening nearby, said one thing.
'Dad, your explanation has been vague for a while now.'
A sharp, logical point. But I couldn't help but laugh.

These honest retorts from children blow away my little stresses and worries.

▪️Dad is being raised, too

When children ask 'Why?', honestly, there are times when it's a hassle. But by facing those questions, I learn and rethink things myself.

We tend to think of parenting as being the 'teacher,' but in reality, we are also the 'student.' Being able to grow together with my children is my greatest treasure as a parent.


The future me is someone who has been raised by conversations with my children.
As a dad and as a person, I want to grow even more.

Everything is good today, too!

I am able to continue thanks to the support of those who empathize and cheer me on🥲
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