○ The Quality of Encounters is Determined by Your Own Growth | Message for January 22nd

Getters Iida selects
words suited to each of the 365 days of the year and compiles them into
a single book.
It is a book that reminds us with gentle words of things we
tend to forget in our daily lives.

I myself, wanting to gain new insights in my daily life, read this book
every day and summarize it as an article.I would be happy if you could read it as a time to
quietly prepare your heart at the start of your day.

This time, I will introduce the overview and key points of
"Getters Iida's 365 Days of Stories to Improve Your Luck"
January 22nd: 'To meet people who help you grow, you should grow yourself'
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■ Overview

The message for January 22nd teaches the idea that
"Good encounters are not something you wait for, but something you attract to the extent that you have grown yourself."

Before wishing to "meet someone who will help me grow," it asks us to reconsider
whether we have become the kind of person worthy of meeting them, and can be taken as a message to
focus on self-improvement.

Encounters that change your life and connections with people who lift you up are not coincidences, but are connected to Getters Iida's unique
view on encounters, which is that they arrive in a form that matches your
level of thinking, actions, and effort.

■ Point 1 | The idea of "connections matching your level"

"When you are not liked by the person you like, it is time to raise your own level"—as the saying goes, people tend to

form connections with others who match their own humanity, resolve, and depth of effort.

If you wish to "meet amazing people" or "connect with people I can respect," he conveys that

aiming to be the one who is respected is the best shortcut.

It is a bit strict, but it is a very positive perspective.

■ Point 2 | Encounters come to those who take action

Getters Iida also left behind words to the effect of,
"Encounters come to those who seriously want to meet others. Because when people get serious, they take action."

Instead of just waiting,

• learn

• share

• go out into the world

• Taking on challenges

By continuing actions such as
you will naturally find yourself connecting with people who are looking in the same direction and peers who share the same level of enthusiasm
more easily.

■ Point 3 | Think about the 'meaning of meeting this person'

It is also said that by
'Why did I meet this person now?' and thinking about the meaning behind your encounters, you will
find it easier to learn from any connection.

Even with people you don't get along with or find difficult, by perceiving it as
'What am I being told to learn from this person?', that encounter will turn into
material for your own growth.

■ How to apply this today

Just two things you can do starting today.

1. Think about the version of yourself that suits the people you want to meet

'I want to meet someone like this' - think of one such person, choose just one

action, habit, or way of speaking that is appropriate for them, and try imitating it starting today.

2. Write down what you have learned from people you met recently

Choose one person you met today or recently, and write down:

• What you can learn from this person

• How this encounter might help you grow

by writing three things in your notebook.

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