○ Rather than Regret, Reflect: The 'Future-Oriented Perspective' Taught by February 16th

Getterz Iida has compiled a book that offers
words that accompany each of the 365 days of the year.
That book is “Getterz Iida’s 365 Days of Stories to Improve Your Luck”.

It is a book that
gently puts the brakes on us when we tend to get carried away by our emotions.
I myself, wanting to gain new insights in my daily life,
read it every day and summarize the words.
At the start of the day, I would be happy if you could read it quietly.

Today, I will summarize the overview and key points from February 16th,
“I don’t regret, but I do reflect.”

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■ Overview (What kind of story is it?)

The message for February 16th is very simple.

Even if you keep regretting what has already passed, your luck will not move. The important thing is what you learn from it and how you change your actions.

It is pointed out that the “habit of regret” of repeatedly thinking, “I should have done that back then,” is a
mindset that lowers your luck.

On the other hand, “reflection” is an important task to avoid repeating the same mistakes.
People who improve their luck are taught not to be swayed by emotions, but to calmly look back on their own actions and find areas for improvement.

“Not regretting” does not mean “being defiant.”
Because you cannot change the past, focus your consciousness on what you will do from now on.
That positive attitude is the message that will change the future.

■ Points (Tips for practice)

・When you fail, instead of continuing to blame yourself by saying, “Why did I do that...”, “Where did I make the wrong judgment?” and “What will I do if the same situation happens next time?” should be written down on paper and organized.

・Have the awareness that while “regret” ends with emotion, “reflection” should be set until your actions change.

・Before going to sleep, look back on the day, choose just one thing that “didn’t go well,” and decide on one concrete action to change starting the next day.

The accumulation of just small corrections will, as a result, change the big flow.

■ How to spend February 16th

If there is something you are currently hung up on from the past, do not end it with “regret,” but try
changing it into “reflection.”

Stop the emotional loop and
decide your next move.

February 16th is not a day to be bound by the past, but

a day to prepare for the future.

One reflection today
should make tomorrow's luck a little lighter.

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