🤍 5 Points to Consider Before You Start Dating

Good evening! This is Ohana-chan, chasing my dreams 🫧
In this article, I will write about "5 points to consider before you start dating." Please note that the following is strictly my personal opinion. Let's get started ☺️
※ This article was written with the help of ChatGPT to articulate my thoughts.

5 points to consider before you start dating ☺️

To build a relationship that you can cherish for a long time, try looking beyond just "liking" someone. When you fall in love, you naturally want to charge ahead based solely on those feelings of "liking" them. However, for a relationship to continue comfortably, there are important elements beyond just "feelings." This time, I will introduce 5 points you should look at before you start dating. Each of these serves as a hint to determine whether you can build a good relationship moving forward.

1. Whether your vibes match 🍵

The tempo of conversation, what makes you laugh, and the sense of distance that feels comfortable.
Whether the hard-to-describe "vibe" matches is surprisingly an important point. Can you be yourself without forcing it? Do you feel tired when you are together?
Since this is someone you will spend a long time with, please value the compatibility of your vibes.

2. Whether they are sincere 💪

The other person's sincerity is the foundation of the relationship.
Keeping promises, not lying, and not trying to keep things convenient for themselves. Check to see if their words and actions are trustworthy, even in small things. If you look at whether they are a "trustworthy person" rather than just how much you like them, you can protect your own heart.

3. Whether they have the will to keep growing 🔥

They don't have to be perfect, but are they someone who wants to "be better"? Even if they are a bit clumsy right now, do they have the attitude of facing themselves and trying to make an effort? Because both life and love are "things that keep changing," whether you can grow together is an important perspective.

4. Whether they treat people and things with care 📚️

What kind of words do they use on a daily basis? Do they only speak ill of others? Do they treat objects roughly? The "power to cherish" also appears in how they treat you once you become lovers. Someone who can be considerate toward people and things will surely cherish you as well.

5. Whether your priorities for love are similar ❤

How often do you want to meet? How much distance do you want to keep in the relationship? If your values regarding love are extremely different, it becomes easy for misunderstandings and anxiety to arise. With someone whose "heat" and "timing" for love are similar to yours, you can naturally nurture a relationship without strain.

A romance where you just charge ahead based on "I like you!" is wonderful, but
when you imagine the "daily life for two" that follows after that,
these 5 perspectives might serve as a hint.

What is important is, "Can I be with this person with peace of mind?"
Because I believe that a love where you can be yourself is the happiest kind.

That is all! I hope this is helpful. Thank you for reading. I would be happy if you read my other articles too 🍀