What You Gain When You Forgive and Accept: The Melancholy of Moon Sign Cancer

Hello, I'm Yukki, a reality creator😊

In this note, I share insights to help you realize that your own thoughts create your reality, based on everyday occurrences🙆‍♀

I recently became interested in horoscopes and studied my moon sign.

I discovered that the fear of 'I have no value unless I am loved,' which constantly haunts me, is a characteristic of the Moon Sign Cancer's excuse: 'I'm doing this, so please forgive me! (tee-hee)☆' (bitter laugh)

The Cancer excuse is: 'I must be loved💦 I must protect them💦'

Yes. I put in an incredible amount of effort to be loved. And that effort is exerted in protecting the other person.

Since I was a child, I was sensitive and could understand what people were thinking from their slight expressions, pauses, and the atmosphere. I was a child who would read my parents' faces and tone of voice, thinking about how to make them happy and how to keep them from getting in a bad mood.

To be loved, I would discard what I wanted to do.
I must have lived with the belief that I have no value unless I am loved.

This habit still torments me today.
The fear that I might have been disliked over something trivial constantly follows me.

By now, I've become much better at looking at myself objectively and calming my feelings, but when it comes to trying to earn money on my own, this thing gets in the way tremendously lol

I really want to do this, but will I be disliked if I say it?😰
Would it be rude?💦
Even though it's perfectly fine to speak up without holding back, for some reason, when it comes to money, I often hold back, withdraw, and think it's better if I just endure it...😂💦💦

Even if I have a true desire of my own, if there is even the slightest possibility that saying it might make the other person uncomfortable, fear and guilt well up inside me.

Thanks to the experience of being able to say what I want to my friends, that side of me has largely disappeared, but when money is involved, it's pretty bad🤣

I feel like this has become a money block😅

I think Cancer is a sign that is naturally loved even if you don't do anything😅 Because you give love unconsciously (lol). But you have no self-confidence at all, and you think you won't be loved unless you protect others😅

Because I lack confidence, I desperately pour all my love into those who have entered my inner circle. To be loved, to not be disliked (lol). But that's not unconditional love😅 It's calculated love that says, 'I've poured this much love into you, so you'll love me back, right?!' (lol)

That's why I get angry if they don't return the same amount of love lol. That's because it's a way of giving love that has a purpose and seeks a return.

I really want to be loved without having to do things like that, but I've come to believe that I won't be loved unless I do something.

This is the thinking of me, a Moon Sign Cancer😅

It's super troublesome, right?ww

So, how can you turn this around?
Well, suppressing it is counterproductive.

Most people probably start by trying to endure it, attempting to fix the part of themselves that seeks a return on their investment, but if you suppress and endure it, that tendency only gets stronger, and you'll start feeling anger when the other person doesn't give you what you want lol

This is a key characteristic of the thoughts and emotions that form our reality, but if you don't forgive yourself and allow yourself to feel them, they sink to the bottom of your heart, rot, and start to give off a foul odor 😅

I'm sure you've met people who seem like really good people, but you get the feeling there's something hidden underneath... 🙄 That happens because they are suppressing thoughts and emotions that are generally considered 'bad' at the bottom of their hearts and playing the role of a good person (lol)

And those suppressed parts manifest as problems in life, such as dissatisfaction with the outside world or being blamed by the people around you.

Actually, it's the opposite (lol)
In my case, the urgent task is to acknowledge and forgive the part of me that seeks a return. Once I forgive it, I immediately show it through action!
This is the trick to changing your reality 😉

Now, since it seems many people don't really understand what 'acknowledging and forgiving' means, I'm going to reveal my method for forgiveness (lol)
Some of you might even shed a tear as you read this and relate it to yourselves 😉 lol

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(Honestly expressing the part of me that seeks a return lol)

Acknowledge and forgive

You do seek a return, don't you? 😅 After all, you unconsciously want to prioritize the people you love (lol)

You end up thinking, 'Why am I prioritizing you, but you won't prioritize me?!' 😡 😅

You were desperate to be loved, weren't you? You thought that if you didn't protect them, you wouldn't be loved.
But it's okay not to be loved anymore. It's fine whether you are loved or not.

Even if you don't prioritize that person and they end up disliking you, isn't that fine? Do I really want to be with someone who would leave me just because I prioritized myself? Isn't it just painful to be together? I don't think there's any need to force yourself to stay together 😅

But you're thinking, 'I might end up all alone...' 😢
It's okay. You won't be alone. I am here.
I will always be on my own side.

Besides, even if I stay as I am, there are plenty of people who will like me 😊

It's okay for me to prioritize myself. But it's also okay to prioritize others. Either way is fine 😊

I forgive myself for prioritizing others.
I forgive myself for prioritizing myself.

You don't have to try so hard to give. It's okay.
Even if you don't do that, you are attractive enough just by being here.

I forgive myself for seeking something in return.
I forgive myself for not giving anything in return.

It's okay to just receive. Go ahead and receive more, and become rich and happy.

It's fine to give back to the person who gave you abundance, but you don't have to force yourself to do it.
Everything is connected, after all.

The abundance you have received is already circulating through the acts of love you unconsciously give to others.

You don't need to rush, thinking you have to give back or give more.

Just as I am, being my natural self, the cycle of love is already happening.

So, it's okay to honestly receive and rejoice in the love that comes back from the world.

I forgive myself for receiving love and being happy about it.
I forgive myself for withdrawing love.

If you feel like it doesn't fit, you don't have to receive it.
If it doesn't feel balanced, you can stop giving.

You are free to adjust the amount of love you give at any time.

I mean, you want something in return, right?

It doesn't have to be unconditional love!
I'm not some kind of Buddha-like being (lol).

Isn't it natural to get something in return for your hard work?

Unconditional love? That's just a pretty ideal (lol).
I can't be satisfied unless I receive something first.

Unconditional love is something you can only give once you've received it without hesitation and are full yourself.

If you just keep giving while actually wanting something yourself, but pretending to give unconditional love, you'll never truly be able to give unconditional love.

The reason babies and children give unconditional love is because they spend every day just receiving so much.

It's impossible to ask a parent who is already working super hard to give every day to do the same.
Even if a child gives unconditional love, it's not balanced (lol).

Parents tend to try hard to give, but actually, it's the opposite😅 It might be better to try not to give too much first😂

Just by receiving, the person who gave can also smile.
Your very existence is love.
That is actually a state you can reach not by giving, but by receiving😳💡

I realized something amazing once I forgave myself for wanting something in return🤣

Humans are greedy.
Only by honestly satisfying your desires can you begin to radiate unconditional love.

Alright, I've started to forgive myself for wanting something in return😊
Now, I'll accelerate that forgiveness with immediate action!✨

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Writing this down really helped clear my head and purify things☺️
I even took the leap of faith to ask for something in return lol
Thank you to everyone who read this😊✨

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