What are 'taboo words' in wedding speeches? [Words to avoid]

When you are thinking about a wedding speech, do you ever feel anxious, wondering, "Is it okay to use this word?"

In fact, there are "taboo words" that are considered better to avoid at weddings.

Using them without knowing can sometimes create a slightly awkward atmosphere, so it is reassuring to know about them in advance.

This time, I will introduce "taboo words to be careful of in wedding speeches and how to rephrase them".

What are taboo words?

Taboo words are "words that evoke misfortune or separation." Since a wedding is a place to celebrate a new beginning, it is generally considered best to avoid words that are not auspicious.

When thinking about your speech, it is a good idea to check if you are using any such words.

Taboo words to avoid at weddings

Typical taboo words include the following:

These are considered best avoided in wedding speeches because they evoke the separation of a couple or the end of a relationship.

Also, expressions that repeat the same word (repetitive words), such as "again" or "over and over," should be avoided as they also evoke remarriage.

Examples of rephrasing taboo words

If you think you might use a taboo word in your text, you can express it naturally by rephrasing it with other words.

For example

・Separate → Walk a new path
・End → Welcome a new start
・Cut → Reach a milestone

Even changing the words slightly will make the impression of your speech much softer😊

The most important thing in a speech

While taboo words are a point to be careful about, what is even more important is your feeling of celebration.

Conveying your memories with the bride and groom and your wishes for their future happiness in your own words will make for a speech that is more memorable than anything else.

Don't overthink it too much, and try to choose your words with warm feelings.

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