Even a 3.5 Million View Buzz Doesn't Resonate. What I Saw There: The Power of Being Yourself
"I want to post and go viral"—I think many people wish for that.
Views go up, likes increase, and followers jump all at once.
The numbers on the screen move rapidly, and the notifications never stop—it's like a dream, isn't it?
Actually, I have had that experience too.
My Instagram Reel went viral andreached 3.5 million views.
To give you an idea of how massive that view count is,it's enough to fill a sold-out Tokyo Dome (60,000 people) about 63 times over.
Or, it'scomparable to the viewership of a nationwide television program.
However, what arrived as a result was—over 1,200 hate comments (lol).
(Of course, I also received many supportive comments. Thank you so much!)
At that time, I was surprised, a little hurt, and then I realized something.
"Numbers" and "Resonance" are completely different things.
👉 "Numbers" and "Resonance" are completely different things.
No matter how many people it reaches, if it doesn't resonate with their hearts, it's meaningless.
Conversely, if even a small number of people feel that it "reached them deeply," that is a true gift.
I have always wished to "convey more."
But the essence of that isn't in decorating my words or jumping on trends—
✨"Being Maimai (myself)"✨
—Did those who read this just stumble a bit? (lol)
But it is a very important thing.
🌿Click here for a detailed article on "Being Yourself"👇
Being yourself is what creates resonance.
"Being Maimai (myself)" means trusting the voice that wells up from deep within you and presenting it just as it is.
That is communication that resonates deeply rather than spreading shallowly.
I call that "Deep Sea Breathing."
I have summarized information about Deep Sea Breathing here👇
To you
If you are currently
"Trying hard but not getting through"
"Feeling pained by only caring about the numbers"
If you are holding onto feelings like that—
Please, I want you to remember.
What matters is 'being you'.
Because that is the greatest source of resonance🌿
🌿 The rest is summarized here👇
💡And──
I continued to post with this stance, andaccumulated 100 articles in 19 days.
Not just chasing numbers, but accumulating them while valuing resonance.
What made that balance possible is the 'ChatGPT Co-creation Technique'.
The rest is here👇
🌱 I have summarized the philosophy of cultivating your own market and life here👇
📖 Click here for the summary article on 'How to deal with anger, frustration, and criticism'👇
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▶The sense of discomfort from being told 'Aren't you overthinking it?'
🪞 This is a place to clarify your judgment rather than seeking correctness.
If, after finishing reading, you feel 'something has shifted' rather than 'I understood'.
That is a sign that the 'assumptions' within you have begun to waver.
What we handle at withchat is the 'premise structure' that dulls your decision-making.
We do not deal in encouragement or know-how.
This is time for you to stand in a position from which you cannot return.
If this feeling rings a bell, I recommend starting from here.