How to Face a Mother's Love? — The “Inherited Structure of Love” Lived by the Around-40 Generation
Our mothers in the around-40 generation,
all seem to have a somewhat similar form of love, don't they?
Putting family before themselves.
Prioritizing "what others think" over their own feelings.
From a young age, "patience" and "consideration" were ingrained in them,
and before they knew it, that became their form of "kindness."
But when you think about it, that wasa love created by the atmosphere of the timesafter all.
🌙 The "image of a mother" in the past was straightforward and a little bittersweet.
For example—
In the past, it was "unthinkable" to leave small children at home to go out for a meal with friends.
The sentiment that "a mother shouldn't be having fun" or "the children come first, right?" was the norm.
Leaving children with parents to go on a date with your husband?
That was considered "selfish."
Rather than spending money on beauty or hobbies,
prioritizing children's lessons and tuition was "a mother's love."
Our mothers were always at the center of the family, but
they were also a generation that left their "own emotions" behind.
That's why, when they finished the housework and watched TV at night,
there were moments when their expressions seemed to look into the distance.
It wasn't "fatigue,"
but perhaps a silent sigh that "there was nowhere to live for myself."
🌺 Our mothers lived their lives fully, too.
Although it may look like they lived sacrificially,
our mothers were truly living their own lives.
They chose "the best love they could within the given framework."
It's just thatthere was no margin.
Resting, looking into their own hearts, or even saying "I like this" were things that required a bit of courage in that era.
Even so, they changed clothes with the seasons,
cooked meals, and sometimes even while crying, they kept the family going.
That was theutmost loveof our mothers' generation.
The reason we can choose to "live for ourselves" now is
because theydid not let love die outin that era.
Because our mothers lived that era to the fullest, we are now able to "choose."
We stand in an era where we can decide for ourselves what form of love to live.
🔥 Our generation is living the continuation of that.
Having grown up watching the backs of such mothers,
we carry the desire to "live our own lives" somewhere within us,
yet we still can't shake the feeling that "I have to be proper like my mother."
Seeing moms on social media who are shining,
while thinking "that's nice,"
we hit the brakes somewhere, wondering, "Is it okay for me to be that free?"
At work, we are expected to be "thoughtful people,"
and at home, we are expected to be "mothers who read the room."
So before we know it,
we are living only as "me for someone else,"
and putting "me for myself" on the back burner.
But we are the generation that isevolving love while carrying that conflict.From "sacrificial love" to "circulating love."
From "perfect mother" to "mother as a human being just as she is."
🌿 And now, it is our turn to let the breeze blow through
We are here not to blame our mothers or to compare ourselves with them, but to
let the breeze blow through.
Bringing a little bit of 'space and breath' into the 'closed love' that our mothers lived.
That will also gently heal our mothers' hearts.
That will also gently heal our mothers' hearts.
Without denying our mothers' way of life,
being able to say, 'Because you lived your path, I live mine this way.'
That is the 'inheritance of love' for the next generation.
💠 'Love Evolution Map'
🌷 The next generation is already growing
I have a young daughter.
Watching her, I feel that the 'new form of love' for the next generation is already growing properly.
Things I worry about, wondering if they are okay,
she naturally 'accepts with love.'
Even though I live separately, my daughter
tells me, 'I love you, Mommy,' and 'I'm worried about you, Mommy.'
In the honesty with which those words naturally emerge,
I feel a sense of a new era where 'love circulates without having to try so hard.'
She possesses the 'power to receive' that I once could not.
She knows not just how to 'love,' but how to 'receive love.'
🌈 We are building that bridge
The love that our mothers' generation protected to ensure it wouldn't die out,
we connect to the next by 'refining' it,
and our children spread it to the world by 'enjoying' it.
Can you imagine wanting your children to experience your current way of life just as you do?
And are you living a life that you can show your children with confidence?
Even without telling our children 'do this,'
we show them the 'answer' through our own way of living.
That is why 'how we live' becomes the inheritance of love itself.
That is precisely why we, the around-40 generation,
are being asked how we live not just 'as mothers,' but 'as individuals.'
The children are already watching.
'How Mommy smiles'
'How Mommy takes care of herself'
That image becomes the 'template for living' for our children.
We are the generation that translates the love protected by our mothers' sacrifices
into a 'circulating love' to pass on to the next.
Living for yourself, not just for someone else, is already the 'greatest gift to our children.'
💫 The 'form of love' that flows in each home
💬 What form do 'mother's love' and 'your own love' take for you?
Though our positions and choices may differ,
surely, in every form, 'that person's own sincerity' is flowing.
Every time the era changes,
love changes its form, yet it is properly passed on.
In the midst of that,
perhaps we are "breathing in a way that connects the past and the future."
🌱 Why not take a look at the shape of your own love?
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Because there was a mother's era,
we can now "freely choose" love right here.
And,
the children will surely live out the continuation of that gently.
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the same structure appears repeatedly, changing its form.
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