What is the secret to building good relationships?

“Conversations with colleagues who only complain are painful.”
“I want to decline invitations to drinking parties, but I’m afraid of being disliked.”

Do you have such worries?

As long as you work in society,
you cannot avoid interacting with people.

In that process, there may be times when relationships feel painful.

“I’m just not blessed with good relationships at all…”

I want you, who feels that way, to hear this story!

I will share the secret to building good relationships,
so please read until the end.

XX is a mirror that reflects you

“The average annual income of the five people closest to you is your annual income.”

Have you ever heard this?

Actually,
try to think of thefive peopleclosest to you.

Don’t you feel that,
how they spend moneyandstandard of livingare somewhat similar?
Furthermore, don’t you think theirvaluesandways of thinkingare also similar?

People naturally attract those who are similar to themin terms of hometown, hobbies, way of thinking, income, etc.
For example, it is common for business owners to have many friends who are also business owners.

It is truly
“birds of a feather flock together.”

If you are similar, there are many parts you can empathize with, and it feels comfortable.

However, the more similar you are,

• Always repeating the same topics
• Different opinions are less likely to emerge, narrowing your perspective
• Actions become similar, so your world does not expand

There are alsodisadvantageslike these.

Also,people are creatures easily influenced by their environment,so not only are they easily influenced by good things,

but they are also easily influenced by bad things.

If you are near someone who only complains,
before you know it, you start complaining all the time too...
It’s like that.

That is how strong the influence of the people around you is
on your life.

Building good relationships is up to you

Simply put,
if you change yourself, your relationships will change on their own.

However,
if you could do that, you wouldn’t be struggling, right?

That is why I recommend
“imitating others.”

When you put this method into practice,
not only will you change,
but your relationships will change at the same time.

The method is simple.
Just thoroughly imitate someone who has already achievedwhat you want to achieve.

For example,
if you think, "I want to earn 10 million yen a year,"then try imitating someone who is already earning 10 million yen a year.
try imitating someone who is already earning 10 million yen a year.

Examples of things to imitate include:

・Way of thinking
・Habits
・Places they frequent
・Catchphrases
・Movies and books they often watch/read

and so on.

If it is someone you can meet in person,
I recommend trying to be near them as much as possible.

That said, there may be times when you want to imitate someone you don't even know, let alone meet.
(Though I recommend someone close to you if possible...)

In such cases,
if that person hassocial mediaorYouTube,it is also recommended to get information from there.

1. Find someone you want to be like.
2. Thoroughly imitate that person.

By being conscious of these two things,
first,the environment surrounding you will change.

I mentioned earlier thathumans are creatures easily influenced by their environment.In other words,
by changing your environment, you will naturally change yourself as well.

・By changing your environment, the people you interact with also change.
・By changing your environment, you can change yourself.
・By changing yourself, you become more likely to be blessed with good relationships.

Once you enter such a positive cycle,
the rest is easy.

Summary

This time,I shared how to build good relationships.The kind of relationships you surround yourself with will
greatly influence your life.

There is no need to try to change yourself all at once.
First,to change your environment,let's start by
"imitating"someone.

1. Find someone you want to be like.
2. Thoroughly imitate that person.

Please try to be conscious of this flow starting today.

I would be very happy if you could use this note
to raise your phase.
I would be very happy if you could use this note.

Thank you for reading.
This was Masaki Yamashita🌙

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