【Happy Marriage🥰】How 30-something couples can maintain a "comfortable distance." Words of gratitude to share this Valentine's Day
Hello! It's Chaso-sensei🧑🏫!
Between work, childcare, and housework, couples in their 30s are incredibly busy. When you're desperately trying to get through every day,gratitude toward your partner tends to get buried in the "taken for granted"routine.
Falling asleep while putting the kids to bed... that's a common occurrence😃, and it's days where the kids👦 come first, right!
Today is Valentine's Day💌. Let's use this special event as a spice to brighten up our daily lives and organize some "tips for a happy marriage".
1. Use events to create "rhythm in your marriage"
As married life goes on, every day becomes a routine. That's why it's important touse seasonal events like Valentine's Day and birthdays as a "switch" to change things up.
• Enjoya slightly more luxurious mealthan usual
• Give apresent
with the same atmosphere as when you were datingBy consciously creating a "special feeling," you can prevent boredom and it becomesa valuable opportunity to rediscover each other as a man and a woman
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This is where you should spend your money! Conversely, if you're usually saving money and don't spend it here, dissatisfaction will build up🥲
It's easy to compare yourself in casual conversation, thinking, "My friend got celebrated..." The future is important, but... the present is also important!😃
2. Small surprises on "ordinary days"
Events are certainly important, but what really strengthens the bond between a couple are the "small gifts" found in casual daily life.
• Buythe other person's favorite sweetson your way home from work
• Stick a sticky note that says "thanks for always cleaning"
• When your partner is tired, take over the housework by saying "I'll do it today"
It doesn't have to be anything grand. Conveying the message "I was thinking about you" is the best gift of all.
My recommendation is tofollow the example of "Nigehaji" (The Full-Time Wife Escapist)and create a hug day!😃
Hugging every day is easy and you can feel the love, and while you're hugging, you can easily exchange words☺️ Please give it a try.
If it's hard to bring up, suggest, "Let's try this while watching Nigehaji!"😁
3. The secret to a happy marriage is "daily accumulation"
At the end of the day, there is no magic wand for a marital relationship. A good relationship is the crystallization of small daily interactions.
Turn "taken for granted" into "grateful."
In your 30s, because you are a partner who will share a long life ahead, I want tonever forget to respect your closest ally.
How are you spending Valentine's Day today?
In our house, we went to buy cake🍰 yesterday and ate delicious chocolate🍫😁
Please go on a date as a couple🥰
This is where you should spend your money! It's a chance to show that you value your family and to express your daily gratitude😄 It's not like men shouldn't buy things or do anything, so men should definitely give presents and express their gratitude too!
Thank you for watching😊