[Self-Introduction] Nice to meet you. I am the Love Manual.

Nice to meet you.
Thank you so much for opening this note.

Perhaps you are currently...

"I don't understand why he suddenly leaves my messages on read."

"How should I deal with my avoidant boyfriend from here on out?"

You probably arrived at this page carrying such worries.

First of all, there is one thing I want to tell you.

The time you have spent suffering has not been in vain.

Actually, I myself used to be a person similar to the "him" you are worried about right now.

Even when I received a LINE message from someone I liked, I couldn't reply right away.

I had the desire to reply, but I would overthink it, telling myself I "had to reply properly," and before I knew it, hours had passed.

When the topic of living together or marriage came up, even though I should have been happy, my mind would go blank.

It wasn't that I had stopped liking them.

But I just didn't know how to face them.

So I would distance myself.

I would go silent.

Looking back now, I was deeply hurting the other person every time I did that.

My girlfriend at the time was surely...

"Did he start to dislike me?"

"Did I do something wrong?"

I think she was suffering all by herself in that way.

It was only much later that I realized that.

Why I am sharing this information

Back then, I didn't even understand myself.

That is precisely why I continue this work now: to explain as clearly as possible to women who are struggling in the same way what is happening inside his head.

Of course, I don't mean to say that it can't be helped because he is an avoidant type.

And I don't think that the woman should just have to put up with it either.

Because I was once an avoidant type myself, I can share the "true feelings of men" and how to approach relationships without continuing to hurt yourself.

I share my content while valuing both of those aspects.

About me

Currently, I share "men's true feelings" on Threads, Instagram, and TikTok, and I write notes for women who are struggling with avoidant men or being left on read.

I have also obtained a qualification as a certified social worker and have studied human psychology and emotions.

I strive to share information that is based on "evidence" rather than just "feelings," incorporating not only my own real-life experiences but also perspectives from psychology and interpersonal support.

I want people like this to read it

・You are being pushed around by an avoidant boyfriend

・You are suffering because you are being left on read or your messages are being left unread

・He suddenly stopped contacting you after a date

・You don't understand men's true feelings and feel anxious

If even one of these applies to you, this account might be able to help you.

About my notes

In these notes, I publish both free and paid articles.

First, I would be very happy if you could read my free articles and feel that my way of thinking resonates with you.

If there are any topics you would like to know more about after that, please feel free to check out my paid notes as well.

If you are unsure which article to read, you are welcome to consult with me via DM.

Thank you for reading until the end.

Moving forward, I will continue to share insights on "his true feelings" that only I, as a former avoidant type, can convey, as well as advice on love that values your own heart.

I look forward to connecting with you.