[Twin Ray] Common behaviors during the silent period and their true nature

Chapter 3 | Common behaviors during the silent period and their true nature

"I want to believe that I am connected to him."

Even though I think that, I don't hear from him.

On nights when I don't know what to do,

I find myself repeatedly searching online or checking horoscopes.

There are many people in this state.

✦ When anxiety intensifies, people increase their actions

・Checking horoscopes over and over
・Searching for answers one after another
・Looking for information about the other person on social media
・Feeling the urge to contact them

All of these are natural reactions.

However, what is happening here is that

👉It is not "actions to connect with him" but
👉"actions to fill the void of anxiety"

that you have shifted into.

✦ The reason why the relationship stops moving as actions increase

The stronger the anxiety,

the more people think, "I have to do something."

However, in this state,

👉You are acting in response to your own emotions, not the other person,

so,

as a result, the balance of the relationship easily collapses.

・Being swayed by the other person's reactions
・Spending too much time thinking
・Making the other person the center of your life

If this state continues,

👉The relationship itself will easily stagnate.

✦ What needs to be adjusted is your state, not your actions

What is needed at this time is,

👉not to add something, but
👉to decide what to stop

doing.

・Continuing to seek answers externally
・Continuing to track the other person's actions
・Trying to act while still feeling anxious

Just by stopping these,

👉the excessive movement of your thoughts and emotions will settle down.

✦ The true nature of the desire to "connect"

"I want to be connected to him"

That feeling is very natural.

However, when,

👉the emotion of "not wanting to be abandoned" gets mixed in,

the relationship becomes unstable all at once.

Noticing this difference is,

the first step to getting out of this state.

✦ What is needed now is not "doing nothing"

It is not about doing nothing, but rather,

👉"restoring your own state"

is.

・Return the focus of your life to yourself
・Reduce the time spent overthinking
・Reclaim your own time

Once you can do this,

👉The way you see the relationship will also change.

🌙 In the next chapter,

I will explain in more detail
about the changes in the relationship that occur when you stop chasing.

If you are currently,

・Wanting to know what will happen to this relationship
・Wanting to see if there is a possibility of contact returning
・Wanting to decide whether to continue as is

If you are feeling this way,

👉I will tell you individually
about the flow of your connection and the branching of your future.

For you to,

return to a state where you can choose for yourself,
rather than being driven by anxiety.

From there, everything will begin to change.

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