[Twin Ray Reading] What was happening at the 'moment his heart drifted away'

Chapter 2 | What was happening at the 'moment his heart drifted away'

'I feel like he has changed.'
'He used to be so kind...'

From the moment you feel that way,

many people start to wonder, 'Did I do something wrong?'

However, in reality,

👉 It is rarely caused by a single reason,
👉 but rather the balance of the relationship is gradually crumbling

in most cases.

✦ Changes happening within him

When a man's attitude changes,

these kinds of feelings may be occurring inside him.

・He is starting to feel a bit burdened
・He lacks the confidence to meet expectations
・He wants to maintain his own pace
・He feels the responsibility of the relationship is heavy

This is,

👉 not because he has come to dislike you,
👉 but a movement to try and adjust the distance in the relationship

itself.

✦ Why distance is created

In the process of a relationship deepening,

these changes happen naturally.

・Feelings grow stronger
・Time spent thinking about the other person increases
・Becoming sensitive to reactions

All of this is,

👉 a change that occurs precisely because you care deeply

is also true.

However, at the same time,

👉 The balance of the relationship tends to tilt in one direction

is another aspect of it.

✦ The true nature of the state felt as 'becoming heavy'

What many people easily misunderstand here is

the thought that 'he drifted away because I became too heavy'.

But in reality,

👉 rather than weight,
👉 it is a state where the 'sense of burden in the relationship' is increasing

is what it is.

・You become concerned about the other person's reactions
・You want to confirm their feelings
・Your focus shifts to the frequency of communication

When this state continues,

👉 the distance from the other person naturally tends to widen.

✦ There is no need to blame yourself here

This change is

something that can happen to anyone.

It does not mean you were wrong,
nor that your way of loving was bad.

👉 It is simply that the state of the relationship has changed

is all it is.

✦ What is important is not 'searching for the cause' but 'observing the state'

What is necessary at this time is,

👉 Not to keep chasing why this happened, but
👉 To see where the relationship stands right now

.

・Is it a temporary distance?
・Is the relationship stagnant?
・Will it continue to change as it is?

By discerning this,

👉 Your next choice will change.

🌙 In the next chapter,

I will share the actions that many people end up taking during the silent period, and
why those actions make it difficult for the relationship to move forward.

If right now,

・You want to know the meaning behind his change in attitude
・You want to determine what will happen to this relationship in the future
・You are unsure whether you should continue

If you feel this way,

👉 I will tell you individually about
the flow of your connection and the branching of your future.

For you to,

stop being the one swayed by your partner and
return to being the one who can make your own choices.

That is where the relationship will begin to change.

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