The Real Reason Why the Number of People Consulting AI Is Skyrocketing
Introduction
Recently, I have been hearing things like this quite often.
"I am consulting AI about my life."
"I am talking to AI about worries I can't tell anyone else."
"I am engaging in dialogue with AI to organize my thoughts."
Until recently, I think the image of AI was strongly associated with:
・Something to search with
・Something to write text with
・Something to look up information with
However, the way we use AI is now starting to change significantly.
AI is no longer just a tool;
it is starting to be used as a "thinking partner."
So why is the number of people consulting AI skyrocketing now?
There is a very human reason for this.
🦉 The most common worries are those not worth consulting others about
Many of our worries are, in fact, not that big of a deal.
Rather, what is more common are worries like these:
・Not worth consulting someone about
・But they won't leave my head
・Vaguely bothering me
For example:
・Should I continue this job?
・I haven't felt motivated lately
・I'm a little anxious about the future
・Is it okay for me to stay as I am?
These worries are not serious, but they definitely linger in the mind.
However, the hurdle becomes a bit high when you try to consult someone about them.
"It might be an exaggeration to consult someone about something like this."
That is because we think that way.
In that respect, you can talk to AI casually.
Even small worries can be put into words the moment they come to mind. This ease is one of the big reasons why AI consultations are increasing.
▼Question
・Do you have any "small worries" lately that you haven't told anyone?
・If you were to put that worry into words, what kind of sentences would it be?
🧏 AI does not judge
When we consult people, we are a bit guarded.
This is because we might get reactions like this:
"You're overthinking it."
"Aren't you worrying too much?"
"You're worried about something like that?"
Of course, they don't mean any harm.
However, when told that, we sometimes think, "I'll stop talking about it." In that respect, AI is different.
AI:
・Does not judge
・Does not rush you
・Does not evaluate
It simply accepts what you say and helps you organize it.
This is actually very close to thebasic stance of coaching.When there is an environment where you can talk with peace of mind, people naturally start to speak their true feelings.
This is also a reason why AI is spreading as a consultation partner.
▼Question
・Do you have someone you can talk to about your true feelings with peace of mind lately?
・How do you feel when you speak your true feelings?
🗣️ Talking to AI organizes your "thoughts"
The value of AI is not just in providing answers.
Rather, in many cases,
organizing your thoughts
has great significance.
When talking to AI,
・What am I worried about?
・What am I anxious about?
・What do I value?
These things gradually become visible.
This is because thoughts are organized by putting them into words.
Dialogue with AI is like a"mirror that reflects your own thoughts."
Rather than AI giving you an answer, it might be more accurate to say that through dialogue with AI, youget closer to your own answer.
▼Question
・Are there any feelings you haven't been able to put into words lately?
・If you were to write those feelings in one sentence, what words would you use?
👨🎓 The peace of mind of being able to consult anytime
AI has another major feature. That isbeing able to talk anytime.For example:
・Suddenly feeling anxious in the middle of the night
・Doubts arising on the way home from work
・Suddenly thinking about the future
At times like these, it is difficult to consult people. There is the time, and there is the other person's convenience.
But with AI,
・You can talk immediately
・There is no need to wait
・You can talk as many times as you want. This "peace of mind of being able to talk anytime" makes AI a special existence.
People are naturally comforted by putting their thoughts into words. AI provides that opportunity at any time.
▼Question
・When was the last time you felt anxiety or doubt?
・Did you talk to anyone at that time?
🤖 AI is not an entity that provides life answers
There is one important thing here.
AI is not an entity that provides life answers. Also, it is not an entity that decides your life.
The true role of AI is as a"partner for thinking."By engaging in dialogue with AI,
・Thoughts are organized
・True feelings become visible
・The next step becomes visible
AI may not be a life navigator, but rather adevice that creates time to think about life.And, the one who ultimately provides the answer in that dialogue is always
yourself.
▼Question
・What are you currently struggling with?
・Within that struggle, what do you truly want to do?
Conclusion
The new form of self-dialogue expanded by interaction with AI, and the reason why more people are consulting AI.
It is not because people have become weak. In fact, it is the opposite.
People today want to:
・Think about their own lives
・Organize their own feelings
・Find their own answers.
AI is beginning to become a new dialogue partner that supports that thinking.
Perhaps from now on, the "person you consult" may no longer be limited to just humans.
Interaction with AI isa new form of self-dialogue.
