For those tired of being told to 'try harder'
"If you try harder, you will surely change"
"Things aren't going well because you aren't trying hard enough"
Many people believe this and
continue to push themselves to the limit.
I was one of them.
Especially when I was at my lowest,
I did everything I could, worked unpaid overtime, and was desperate
to just get results.
I moved more than anyone else, and
I tried harder than anyone else.
If I work hard, things will go well.
That is what I was convinced of.
But one day, I suddenly realized.
There is a limit to how you can try hard.
There are walls that cannot be overcome by effort alone
No matter how hard you try,
there are problems you just cannot break through.
Results don't improve
Evaluations don't go up
You end up spinning your wheels
Only your feelings get tired
At times like that, the more you convince yourself
"I have to try harder"
, the more it can actually be a detour.
It is not a lack of effort.
It is just that the method is not right.
It was 'assumptions' that were creating the limits
It is not that you are bad for not being able to try hard.
You are not being lazy either.
It is just that
the assumption that 'if you make an effort, it will be solved' was
just making your actions heavier.
What is truly necessary is
not to try hard, but to change your approach.
The right approach is hard to see on your own
When you think only within yourself,
you end up going around in circles.
That is precisely why,
a third-party perspective
a new angle
a different approach
just by introducing these things,
light can shine into the places where you were stuck.sometimes.
For me, that was
the presence of a coach who gives advice.it was.
Try stopping for a moment before you keep pushing yourself
If you are currently,
**pushing yourself by saying 'I have to try harder'
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Try stopping for a moment before you keep pushing yourself
If you are currently,
pushing yourself by saying 'I have to try harder',
please try stopping for a moment.
What you really need is,
not the amount of effort, but the direction.
not grit, but the method.
Rather than how hard you try,
where you are aiming your efforts.
If that is off,
any effort will become painful.
When the method changes, the way you see the world changes
When the method changes,
your actions change, and
when your actions change, the results also change.
Above all,
the weight on your heart is completely different.
'It was okay to be this easy'
'It was okay not to carry it all alone'
When you feel that way,
life starts to become a little lighter.
For those who work hard, changing your perspective can help you move forward.
The more you have pushed yourself until now,
the more you have already done enough.
So next,
instead of trying harder,try
changing how you work hard.
Just by changing that perspective,
life becomes surprisingly light and begins to move forward.
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