[For First-Time Visitors] Site Map for a Single Woman's Note on Overseas Life, Marriage Hunting, and Career Struggles
Nice to meet you! Thank you for visiting!
In this note, I share my heartfelt, honest thoughts on what a single woman in her 30s is thinking, how she makes decisions, and how she is trying to live her life.
I started this note when I wanted to quit the engineering job I had held since graduation and began my search for a true calling.
However, as time passed, I became a 'rental woman,' a digital nomad, joined a marriage agency, and eventually ended up trying to move abroad at 33. Since the content has become so diverse, I created this site map.
I made it simple so that even if Akko-san were to grill me, asking, 'What exactly do you do?', I would be fine. Please feel free to read from the sections that interest you.
◆ My Recent Activities
・32 years old, single, and wanting to die
I've lived my life thinking deeply about my career and searching for my true calling, but more than that, being single past 30 made me feel like I wanted to die.
・Summoning the courage to knock on the door of a marriage agency
Since I can't just die easily even if I want to, I summoned the courage to join a marriage agency, which I only imagined to be a den of monsters. However, a surprising sight awaited me there...
・Consulting a psychic and a fortune teller, quitting marriage hunting, and deciding to move abroad
I was marriage hunting because I was single and wanted to die, but I also wanted to go abroad, which had been my dream for a long time... Not knowing the right answer and clutching at straws, I relied on a psychic and a fortune teller. They both said the same thing (scary). And so, I decided to aim for a job in Malaysia.
・Lonely study abroad in Baguio
Since I'm not fluent in English, I decided to spend a month in the Philippines speaking English from morning till night before heading to Malaysia. But studying abroad at 33 was lonelier than I thought.
・Arrived in Malaysia, but no job...
I moved to Malaysia as planned and am looking for work. But there are fewer jobs than I expected... This is bad...
To Be Continued...!
◆ 2 Useful Articles Without Sugarcoating (Recommended!)
1. How to get 1,000 followers even with essays or anything else ~I won't lose to those people who get lots of likes and followers despite writing nothing of substance~
I have always hated people who get lots of likes and followers despite writing nothing of substance. I couldn't understand why their trashy articles were more popular than my heartfelt ones. However... I finally uncovered the trick. (It's selling well... blushing)
2. [Verification Article on Foul Odors] I found a product that eliminates pathological bad breath
My own breath was so pathologically bad that I used sheer tenacity to find the ultimate bad breath care method. Later, I found the exact same method written in a note by a man in his 40s whose breath smelled like a sewer, and I trembled realizing I had derived the perfect solution for all ages. It's funny, so please take a look.
◆ Magazine Introduction
・Paid Article Assortment Pack
I will continue to add articles that are a bit difficult to publish for free.
・Starting the Search for My Calling
I wasn't suited for engineering work, so I tried out a 'Self-Understanding Program' that costs 330,000 yen to help me find my true calling. At the same time, I'm starting this note.
・Rental Woman Records
I reached the misguided conclusion that my true calling is to be a 'rental woman,' so I started renting myself out. I've compiled episodes from when I was rented, etc.
・I Want to Be a Variety Store Owner
I decided I didn't want to be a rental woman after all and wanted to be a variety store owner, but I gave up immediately ✌️
・Around-30 Marriage Hunting Diary
I realized that marriage was more important than chasing a dream job or a calling, so I joined a marriage agency that everyone fears, thinking, 'It's only full of creepy people, right?' I'm writing here about my experiences there and my worries as an unmarried woman.
・Overseas Career Change
Marriage hunting is important, but I started thinking I wanted to work abroad, so in 2026, at age 33, I will be moving overseas for work. I will be sharing the process in real-time, so please watch over my journey. For now, I'm making all my decisions based on fortune-telling (crazy, I know).
I have other magazines as well, so please feel free to take a look around!
Thank you for reading this far.
This is roughly what it's like.
Right now, driven by the thought, 'I'm living on Earth, so am I really just going to stay in Japan, get married, raise kids, and die? I don't want that... nooooooo...!!', I am planning to change jobs overseas within 2026.
But at 33, I also want to get married and have children like everyone else.
I hope my writing can be of some help to those who are similarly struggling and tossed about by life.
Also, I would be happy if my writing makes you chuckle and you think I'm an interesting person.
I can write as easily as I breathe, so I dream of being able to do writing work. (Just putting it out there... I'm waiting for any job offers!)
