[Connection Wednesday | Extra Edition] Before your heartfelt articles drift away and vanish. I ended up in tears after requesting full-throttle article support from PT Dada, a father of four daughters
I want to make the roller coaster of parenting children with developmental differences a little warmer, I'm Hitomi Kuma, a mom in her late 30s.
Meet 'Arara,' a raccoon character based on my child who has an ASD diagnosis and ADHD & DCD traits.
Currently active as an idol in the note world✨
📌 Here is what I post
🌿 Mon | Growth Monday
・Home therapy / Visiting rehab / Therapy records
🤝 Wed | Connection Wednesday
・Introducing favorite articles / Encounters with people and things
💡 Fri | Inspiration Friday
・AI x Parenting x Creative Partners
：🦭 Jimmy (Gemini)
🦉 Charlie-sensei (ChatGPT)
🐶 Kan-kun (Canva)
☕ Sat | Breathing Room Saturday
・Daily life / Family / My mother with dementia
✨ Sun | 🌟Sparkle Sunday🌟
・Activity record of 'Arara,' the idol of the note world
(Currently making merchandise & streaming on Instagram)
Hitomi Kuma Site Map👇
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Hello!
I'm Hitomi Kuma, a mom in her late 30s.
Every day, while struggling with parenting
💭 I wonder if my feelings are really getting through...?
To everyone clutching their smartphones late at night, you are truly doing your best.
Today, I want to write about how I, someone who struggles with putting things into words, gathered the courage to take a step forward and ended up
crying my eyes out & detoxing my heart.
The sadness of seeing your heartfelt 'thoughts' disappear into the sea of the internet
I have been writing on note while raising my 3-year-old son (who has an ASD diagnosis and ADHD & DCD traits).
Since the end of the year,
💭 Is my note okay the way it is?
I started analyzing it seriously, but you're the one who understands yourself the least (lol).
Having my note analyzed, leading to how to make the most of SNS,
having my articles read and introduced as a whole, I ended up learning about myself.
And now.
While looking at people writing "asset articles" with perfect SEO, my articles are "
the peak of their life is the moment they are published". After that, they just quietly flow away and disappear...
💭 I might not have the technique. But the feelings I want to convey are truly 'heartfelt'!
Holding onto such intense feelings, I felt helpless on my own and decided to ask someone for help.
I gathered my courage and tried borrowing someone else's brain.
The person I asked to analyze and introduce my article this time is Dada-san, a physical therapist (PT) and father of four daughters.
He is a creator I admire, possessing both a professional perspective and a warm parental gaze.
Actually, I agonized for half a day before signing up.
(I'm in my late 30s, and surprisingly chicken.)
💬 A heartfelt article... wouldn't my article be out of place?
I want to praise myself with all my might for shaking off that hesitation and pressing the button!
The magic of connecting through "love" rather than "consideration"
I cried in bed after reading the introduction article that Dada-san wrote for me.
Here is that support article 👇
The reality of child-rearing that cannot be settled with just pretty words, and the challenge of one woman trying to turn it into the 'best entertainment'
Ah, it's getting through...!!
He brilliantly articulated the "scream" hidden behind my clumsy words.
What made me especially happy was his mention of Arara, the raccoon character I based on my son.
Instead of bowing your head and saying 'please be considerate,' it's about building a relationship where people think, 'I love you, so I want to help.'
Isn't that the very 'magic' that goes beyond systems and laws to truly warm our society?
That's right. This is
the reason I had Arara debut as an idol in the note world (affiliated with Takars Agency).
Systems and laws are important, but in the end,
"warm feelings between people", that is the magic that changes society.
Dada-san pushed me forward, calling my ambition (?) to make my neurodivergent child an "idol of the note world" a "wonderful challenge."
Even a message of support (crying)
Hitomi-san, your "seriousness" has heated up the part of me that had grown cold. I truly believe in a future where the words "Arara~" become a password that saves the world. Thank you for the wonderful article, and for the dream!
The importance of stopping and borrowing a "third-party perspective"
I might have pushed myself a bit too hard over the New Year holidays.
There were nights when I felt anxious, wondering, "Am I being self-absorbed?"
But by having a third party look at it objectively and with warm eyes like this,
I became surprisingly calm, and above all,
"I'll write again!", that energy welled up inside me.
I recommend relying on "someone else's brain" if you are like this!
✅️ People who have lost sight of the "strengths" of their own articles
✅️ People who don't want to let an article filled with heartfelt passion end after just one read
✅️ People who want someone to give them a gentle push on the back, rather than a hard shove
If even one of these applies to you, please check this out👇
Dada-san, thank you so much for doing this between changing diapers and feeding milk!
I also want to express my gratitude with respect for the PT who always takes care of my son.
Now, I think I will go back to weaving words that are uniquely mine.
💬 A question for everyone on note
Have you ever written an article with a heartfelt passion that you just had to convey?
Also, have you ever had the experience of wanting to ask someone for help, but couldn't find the courage and ended up hesitating?
If you'd like, please let me know in the comments section. Let's empathize with each other 🙌
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