[Report] My 4-year-old ASD son, "Arara," has finally received his debut song.
Hello.
I'm Hitomi Kuma, a mom in my late 30s.
Today, there is something I really, really wanted to write about.
It's a bit of a brag.
But it's not just any brag.
A story I hope will gently reach parents and children who are right in the middle of raising a child with developmental differences.
🎤 Arara's unexpected debut song
My 4-year-old son.
Diagnosed with ASD. Also has ADHD & DCD (Developmental Coordination Disorder) traits.
For Arara, this time...
he has received a debut song.
The story of how Arara
debuted as an idol in the note world is here👇
The person who handled the lyrics and composition is
Rumi-Rumi, the songwriter for MIRACLE
MIRACLE RuMi-san♡
I'm making a song for Arara
The excitement I felt when I received that message was off the charts.
I mean, really,
・I ran around the house three times for no reason
・I opened the fridge, closed it, and opened it again
・I couldn't stop grinning even after taking deep breaths
I was in a state of "what happened to my emotions?"
I wanted to tell everyone right away!
But due to various circumstances,
today, we are finally ready to announce it.
🎧 First, I want you to listen
"Hey, hey, listen"
hm...
Hey, hey, listen
Look at me
I don't mean to
cause you trouble, hm...
I love you so much, LOVE you
La la la LOVE you LOVE you
LOVE you LOVE you
[Verse 1]
What I could do and what I couldn't
are all treasures
It's okay to take it slow
It's fine just as it is
If you can do it, you can do it
You can just keep trying until you can
No need to rush, I'm always
here
Hey, hey, listen
Look at me
I just can't say it well,
that's all, hm...
I love you so much, LOVE you
La la la LOVE you LOVE you
LOVE you LOVE you
[Verse 2]
More than that day I had you in my belly,
more than that day you were born,
I love you most right now
A dream gift given by our unevenness
hm... hm...
Even the detours are a proper story, hm...
[Rap RuMi Miracle]
Yeah, wandering footsteps, wandering
A map of detours, no rush,
just calm down ah
Choosing warmth over the right answer, fine
You don't have to be strong, it's okay
It's okay to sway, take a deep breath
I'm here
with you with you
Hey, hey
Mom too
Take care of yourself,
Mom, too, hm...
It's okay to cry, hm...
It's okay to stop, hm...
You did your best
again today
Hey, hey, listen
I'm here
That's all
I wanted to tell you, hm... ha...
I love you so much, LOVE you
La la la LOVE you LOVE you
LOVE you LOVE you hm
hm...
Hey, hey, listen
Look at me
I don't mean to
cause you trouble
I cried at this first line.
Huh? Isn't that too soon? you ask?
Yeah, it's soon. But it's a fact.
😭 The story of when I first heard it
Well, I'll be honest.
I listened to it for the first time and cried.
Since then, every day,
I've listened to it at least 5 times. (No exaggeration)
At first,
"Dreams come true☆"
"It's okay to like what you like☆"
I thought it was going to be a cheerful, encouraging song like that.
But, Rumi-Rumi (Ru-chan)
interviewed me so much.
・About Arara
・My true feelings
・Daily struggles
She carefully scooped up everything.
What resulted is this song.
Before listening to it, I thought I wanted to make an answer song, but
this song had everything packed into it, so I don't need to (lol).
💛 3 thoughts packed into this song
① Arara's thoughts (a child with developmental differences)
I don't mean to
be a bother
Even if I want to tell you, I can't say it well.
I don't have even a millimeter of bad intentions.
But, I get misunderstood.
The voices of children like that.
② Thoughts for Arara (raising a child with developmental differences)
Whether you could do it or not,
it's all a treasure
Days that don't go as ideally planned.
✅️ A huge meltdown on the way home from nursery school
✅️ A tantrum while waiting at the hospital
✅️ Every daily action is a mission
But you know.
Even so,
"Right now is the most precious time"
is what I'm thinking.
Little by little, little by little,
there are things he has cleared.
Compared to this time a year ago, it's amazing growth.
3. And, a message for Mom
This part is unfair.
Mom, too
take care of yourself
too
I mean, really.
If a mother raising a child
is told this, she's going to cry, right? (crying)
It's okay to cry.
It's okay to stop.
You did your best today, too.
I thought, this is a form of developmental support.
🌱 I thought this was "support"
Developmental support is,
- Home rehabilitation
- Home-based therapy
- Expert advice
Of course, those are important too.
But.
The words "I understand" are also excellent support.
If any of these are missing, it won't be well-rounded.
Something will explode somewhere.
But when they all come together,
little by little, a warm feeling spreads.
🎥 This is a song for a lifetime
When Arara becomes an adult.
Or when he reaches his half-coming-of-age ceremony.
If I make a video of his growth record,
this song will definitely be the BGM.
I guarantee it.
🙏 A massive traffic jam of gratitude
Rumi-Rumi, thank you so much.
To Maki-san, the manager who shared Arara's story,
thank you.
To the Motsugaki-tai & Mi-chan, who sparked this debut,
thank you.
To everyone at the Takars agency who connected us,
thank you.
And.
To Hidehito Nakano-san, who commented almost every day when I only had single-digit likes.
And to all the followers who gradually increased,
interacted with me, and watched over us,
thank you.
To all the creators who always give me inspiration.
Thank you so much.
I want to link everyone's articles,
but if I did, it would probably be tens of thousands of characters, so I'll refrain 😶🌫️
🌈 Raising a child with developmental differences is a story of taking the long way around.
Taking the long way around is also a proper story.
You don't have to rush.
You don't have to be strong.
It's okay to waver.
I’m here. with you.
💬 I want to ask you
If you or your child had a
"theme song," what would it be?
What kind of song will it be?
What is one thing you would like to say to yourself right now?
Please let me know in the comments if you'd like 🎤
Let's become well-rounded together.
🐻❄️.。.:・゚💫 .。.:・゚🦝.。.:・゚💫 .。.:・゚🎤
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