The Way of Being for Women Who Are Truly Loved, Beyond 'Just Being Yourself'
Thank you all for always receiving information on how to be loved from my posts.
Thanks to your support, I am grateful to be kept busy with many requests for counseling sparked by my content.
Over the past year, I have listened to the raw voices of over 700 people,
and thanks to you, I have come to understand more than when I first started my activities
about what you are struggling with in your deepest parts
What are you worried about?
What are you hurt by?
^_^
By the way, among those who come to me for love advice and counseling,what do you think is the most common concern?
This might be a theme that overlaps with what you, who are reading this,
are currently struggling with.
・A man's affection cools day by day after meeting
・My own feelings grow steadily after meeting...
・The temperature difference in the emotions of two people thinking of each other gradually widens.
"Always staying by my side"
I should have been able to get that deep sense of security from the person I like...
In the end, maybe that won't come true in this next relationship either.
Every time I am confided in like this, I have racked my brain
wondering why these modest wishes of theirs
do not come true.
And,
while spending over 900 hours
listening directly to them,
I realized that they all share a common
wrong way of thinkingthat is causing this situation.
That is
・
Your true self・Your authentic self
the idea of wanting to be loved for that.
I can understand the feelings of women who admire this way of thinking
or find value in it.
However, as someone who has watched many women for over 30 years as a film director,
I think this way of thinking is
a huge waste
andwhen it comes to nurturing a long-term relationship with a man,
very dangerous.
This is because I feel thatevery woman should bethe
leading actress
vibrantly acting out the story of her own life.As I often tell you,when a sense of security grows,a woman's expressions naturally become richer.
Then,
not only your vulnerable self,
but various charms that haven't come to the fore until now
will also be able to be expressed naturally.
Women have
not just one charm,
but many different charms.
When you can express those charms,
love becomes more free and fun.
Therefore,
・Your true self
・Your authentic self
rather than the desire to be loved for that,
the desire to express and enjoy
the various charms within yourself
I think that desire is more essential as a way of being for a woman.
Because, compared to us men,
women buy many types of bags,
buy many types of shoes,
and buy many types of jackets, right?
And
you decide where to go accordingly.
"What should I wear and where should I go?"
I think women are overwhelmingly the ones who can enjoy just thinking about this.
Even though you should love creatively
presenting yourself,
you place too much value on being loved for
・Your true self
・Your authentic self
and I think that self-presentation, which you should actually be able to enjoy,
has become no longer fun.
For example,
if you received many delicious tomatoes
from a farmer you know,
and that farmer specified,
"I want you to enjoy the original flavor and sweetness of these tomatoes,
so please eat them raw as they are,"
how would you feel?
Of course, I understand the producer's feelings, but the more tomatoes you have, the more heavy-hearted you feel, right?
Marinating them in noodle soup,
or putting cheese on them and baking them in the oven,
isn't it fun to think of various ways to eat tomatoes?
If you are tasting the many tomatoes you received
with a fresh feeling, not just one or two.
This is the same in love.
Not for the other person,
but for yourself,
for every date,
if you could fully enjoy presenting your existence,
don't you think the influence you have on the other person during the time you spend together would change?
Men are the same.
No matter how attractive a woman is, if she looks the same every time, people get used to it.
But with a woman who can feel different charms every time even though she is the same person,
you can face her with a fresh feeling even after many years.
And
this joy of presenting yourself
is not limited to visible things like
makeup, hairstyles, and fashion.
Emotional expression
is the same.Joy, anger, sorrow, and pleasure
within you,
how to express themis the most attractive and like yourself?
"Sublimating even the emotions inside through expressive power"
If you can do this,
then from a man's perspective,
he will feel that he absolutely doesn't want to let you go.
Many women
get swallowed by emotions,
get pushed around by emotions,
and don't have the emotional leeway to enjoy
handling their own emotions.
Therefore,
it becomes communication
where you justthrow your feelings at the other person.
The reason a man's feelings cool down
is that he doesn't have the capacity to accept the emotions thrown at him by the woman.
And,
I feel when counseling that
it is mostly because he feels his self-esteem has been hurt
by having feelings thrown at him.
"You should quit that kind of man"
I want to tell them that, but on the other hand,
if they had
"Sublimating even the emotions inside through expressive power"
the power to...
more easily,
"Always staying by my side"
from the person you like,
I have come to think more and more
that you might be able to get that deep sense of security.
What did you all think after reading this far?
That's just an ideal theory,
and for us ordinary people, like professional actresses,
"Sublimating even the emotions inside through expressive power"
there's no way we can do that...
Aren't there many people who thought that?
It may be true that you can't do it exactly like a professional actress.
But,
"The power to present and express yourself"
is something that
definitely and easily
can be polished
as long as you repeat specialized training,
and I have realized this response
by seeing the changes in everyone
who has continued to come to me.
So, this time,
I have specially planned an online event
to introduce that specialized training
to everyone who usually watches my posts.
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Date and Time
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