On Rainy Days, Those Who Treat Themselves with Care Are the Most Attractive♡
How do you all spend your time when it rains?
Where I live, we actually had a guerrilla rainstorm...
Rainy days can sometimes make your mood feel a bit cloudy, right?
Especially since I have ADHD, I sometimes get headaches from changes in barometric pressure...
I might want to cancel my plans, or look in the mirror and think, "Oh well, good enough for today..."
But actually, on days like that, people who know how to treat themselves with care naturally radiate charm🩷
Popular people aren't necessarily doing anything flashy.
I think they are just good at "managing their own mood."
For example, going to your favorite cafe on a rainy day.
Sitting by the window, drinking a warm latte, and reading a book at a leisurely pace.
Just doing that, you strangely get back the feeling that you are properly taking care of yourself.
I don't think self-esteem is about "forcing yourself to be positive"♡
It's more about allowing yourself to experience small comforts.
And surprisingly, that sense of ease is contagious to those around you.
Shopping is the same way.
Instead of choosing "clothes that others will praise," choose clothes that make you feel good while walking.
Even just changing one thing, like a new umbrella, perfume, or accessory, can really change your mood on a rainy day.
People who don't treat themselves poorly are sure to be treated well in love, too♡
Conversely, if you are always acting based on someone else's evaluation, your heart will get tired.
So first, "be on your own side."
You all work hard every day with housework and your jobs, so why not spoil yourself once in a while!!
・Read that book you've been wanting to read
・Take a slightly longer route to go to your favorite cafe
・Choose clothes that make you feel at ease
・Go home early and get some sleep
Aren't those small, accumulated actions what lead to natural charm♡
On rainy days, you don't have to force your self-esteem up!!
People who can quietly compose themselves are more attractive in the long run.
Just for today, instead of trying to be liked by someone else,
please choose "a comfortable time for yourself"♡
I hope you all have a good day, even if it's raining♡
Come back again soon♡