The 'Different Perspective' I Acquired Without Realizing It
When I was young, I wasn't particularly popular, nor was I especially cool.
It's just that—
I was looking at things a little differently than other guys.
While the boys in my class were talking only about surface-level things like
'She's cute' or 'She's not my type,'
for some reason, I was looking at something else.
• The moment their tone of voice dropped
• The pauses in their speech
• The little habits they had when they were happy
• The scent of their true feelings when their eyes darted around
I didn't 'try' to notice these things; I just picked them up naturally as a habit.
Perhaps that's why, before I knew it, I had become 'the one people go to for advice.'
Love advice, friends' troubles, complaints about family.
Even if I didn't want to hear it, for some reason, they would just start talking.
Before I knew it,
I was treated as 'someone who can see deep into the heart.'
But back then, I didn't think of that as a talent or a special skill.
'Why do people tell me so much?'
That was about it.
Even so—
this 'habit of naturally reading others' would become the root of my later life as an invincible seducer.
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■ The reason I became a 'man who doesn't chase'
I have been fallen in love with.
But I didn't chase back.
I didn't know the reason at the time, but looking back now, it's probably this.
I think I understood by instinct that the moment you chase, the power dynamic changes.
The moment the other person's feelings are at their peak,
if I take a step back,
their heart gets a little unsettled.
And that unsettlement—
turns into falling in love.
I didn't think of this as a 'strategy' back then.
I just acted on the intuition that
'something feels off.'
But this 'accuracy of intuition' would go on to change my life significantly.
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■ The first signs of invincibility
I didn't realize it when I was young.
But these small 'discrepancies' piled up and later became my weapons.
• Reading the true feelings that the other person doesn't put into words
• Spotting the fluctuations in emotions
• Understanding that you win more by pulling back than by pushing
• Naturally maintaining the distance the other person desires
This wasn't experience; it was a 'habit.'
The reason I would later have no trouble seducing women
was because of this 'sense of observation' that had sprouted during that time.