Others' Evaluations

You see, others' evaluations
should not be your foundation.

Others' evaluations are

something to see and hear,
and simply receive.

You shouldn't just take them
and shift them into your own standards or foundation.

If you do that, it's just living by someone else's standards.

Evaluations are just a way to
learn about a different perspective.

Others' evaluations (personal things)
Societal evaluations (public things)

Each has its own criteria,
and it's a matter of how you view those perspectives.

Your own evaluation (your own thoughts and standards)

exists as well, so

to completely copy
something other than yourself

means it is not your own foundation, but just someone else's.

Take others' evaluations into yourself, think about them,
and distinguish your own thoughts from others'.

Rebuild them as your own standards,
or put them into your own words,
to make them your own foundation.

The ideas behind others' evaluations and societal evaluations
may be the same as your own thoughts,
or they may be slightly different.

For example,
you might choose to value harmony
within yourself.

Or, alternatively,
you adopt a public attitude in public,
you adopt a smooth attitude with others,
and you create your own sense of morality.

By fluctuating it at that time and in that situation

It is not about how others or society are, but rather
about making it 'what I think'

Create your own standards that will become your own evaluation

If you don't have that or aren't doing that
you will simply copy the axes of others or society
as your own axis

In the end, that means

because others are like this
because society is like this

you act based on thoughts other than your own
and if something happens, you blame someone other than yourself

Leaving yourself out of the equation

because you are not acting based on your own thoughts

Always

What do I think?
How will I act?

Internalize it and think about it
create what you think
and try executing what you have created

And then again

look at and listen to the evaluation
internalize it and think about it
revise what you think update it
and execute it again

And then again
look at and listen to the evaluation...

andrepeat

Evaluation is a confirmation of position

Knowing your current location

Spreading out a map and
knowing your own position is

a process of confirmation

There is a process of thinking about how to view evaluations from there, but

being stimulated by the surface things that are visible
and only taking what is convenient for oneself

receiving only the results
arbitrarily labeling them as superior or inferior, good or bad, etc., and finishing it

Because it is an evaluation,
it will also be quantified and visualized, but

focusing only on those visible results and finishing
there is more to think about, but

many people in the world
seem to use it in that way

I feel like

perhaps it would be good to understand the standards and how to use them

Like confirming your position,
maps and rulers are things that

you understand the standards used for them and
use them selectively

the ruler that an individual has and
the ruler that exists for the whole

their backgrounds, perspectives,
what is it that they are looking at?
exploring the same thing or getting close to it and
observing

Unless you bring them closer to think about it
you won't be able to see things from the same perspective

The same applies to individuals interacting with one another

What kind of ruler do you have
what kind of map are you standing on
what kind of things are you measuring
and what kind of things can you know

There are rulers that are easy to understand
and there are rulers that are hard to understand

Wondering what someone is thinking and how
is not about looking at it through your own ruler, is it

Of course, apart from that

what kind of ruler you have
and how you are using that ruler
to see things

If you don't know those things too
you won't be able to notice
the differences, gaps, or errors

It means you need to know
your own ruler

It is important to understand yourself

In this world, there are people
who act strangely

Like the 'Oden Tsuntsun' incident

where their evaluative sense is buggy
or there are differences in sensibilities and values

Even so, they still hold
moral things within themselves

Their cognitive aspects are different

I believe cognition and evaluation are important

People in the world dislike being evaluated
Because it feels like being labeled

Because that is how you receive it
Because that is how you perceive it
Because that is how you see it

Because there are many such people
That might be why it ends up that way

Perhaps...

After all, you end up knowing the reality...

But
knowing the reality is important, isn't it

Even if it is a bit painful

Everyone has an ideal
of how they want to be

Without longing, there is no driving force

Because you have ideals, knowing the reality is scary

Because you end up feeling the difference or the lack
And it makes you feel unpleasant

The gap between the ideal and reality, you see

That is why people say evaluation is bad
Or that ranking people is wrong

But knowing yourself

I think it is important
for living rationally

Because you do things that are not rational
That is why things do not get easier

Individuals have their own strengths and weaknesses,
what those are,
what is acceptable,
and what kind of things one can carry out,

we should know for ourselves,
adapt to ourselves,
and cultivate our own strengths.

In our daily lives, we make
many small evaluations.

Therefore,
not just our own self-evaluation,
but also the evaluation seen from those around us

is necessary to correctly recognize oneself,
and I believe it is important.

Accept it gratefully.

The important thing is interpretation.

Confirm your own position,
form your own thoughts,

and then, execute.

Your own thoughts,
your own standards,
your own yardstick.

Because that belongs only to you,
it is also something biased.

Although we think we are not biased,
I think everyone is biased.

Each person is different,
and there is no such thing as the same one.

Therefore,
it means trying to stand from every perspective,

and distinguishing yourself from others
is what that means.

It's a waste to live
only worrying about
what others think of you

That's what I think.

You are the one who creates yourself

...Thank you for reading...

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