What others say or do

When interacting with children,
I often hear things
or have anger directed at me.

There is actually a place where it should be directed,
but it is a moment when one's own discomfort
is directed toward something else.

When nothing can be done about it,

Don't mess with me,
go away,
I hate you,
don't come here.

Taking it out on objects,
taking it out on people.

Touching something inside oneself.

What is inside oneself is
a combination of the individual and their environment.

That is what I think.

They usually carry something that isn't going well,

and that takes another form,
appearing as secondary acting out.

That is how it looks to me.

Being showered with verbal abuse and violent cursing is common.

Because the children that I and the teachers interact with are
children who cannot control their emotions well,
children who cannot verbalize well,
or children whose environment between parent and child or within the family is not functioning well.

They are children who are carrying something.

When things don't go as they wish,
they cannot adjust or cope well.
I am interacting with children who need support.

Being on the receiving end of abuse is within my expectations.
Projection is a real thing.

Such things are also clues to exploring the background
What to see, what to pick up, what to convey, and what to nurture
Connecting to growth

Negative things can be troublesome, but
they are also important for growth

If possible,
before it becomes too much to handle,
before it leads to acting out or a mental and physical breakdown

I want to notice and think of ways to help

Supporting over time
what leads to growth

Even if they act out, it is accepted,
and even if they don't understand it intellectually, they feel it intuitively

Acceptance is nourishment for the heart

There is a process of clashing,
and building a relationship that includes that

Taking what is nurtured within that as experience

Enhancing emotional growth

What others say or do

It's easy to say

Because my mother...
Because my parent...
Because that guy...
Because the teacher...

Because...

Children, adults, anyone

has various emotions,
and feels various things

has various things they want to run away from,
and has various excuses

Failure is part of the process and
failure is the start of learning

If the behavior is inappropriate,
think of it as being underdeveloped, unlearned, mislearned, or an error

Even if you cannot control it,
even if you cannot deal with it,
even if you cannot face it,
even if you want to run away,
even if you do not notice it,
even if you are not good at it

Look at the behavior, not the personality, and
listen to the words

Not about affirmation or negation

Know

Face the direction where you can handle things more appropriately

It is not about what others do,
but about what each individual does,
or so I think

The person themselves and the people involved, each and every one

Take initiative

What will I do?

How will I live?

Create an environment

If you are an adult, rather than talking about others

Look at yourself
and focus your awareness on yourself

In the direction of self-improvement

It is not only children who grow
adults continue to grow as well

As long as we are alive

Learning and growth

Your own essence
even when you are not doing anything

in the midst of ordinary days
is conveyed to those around you

Negativity spreads
and positivity spreads as well

To yourself and to others
because we are mutually influencing each other

It is hard to notice
what you are creating yourself

As if you are being asked
how you are living

Growth is reflection
rather than blaming yourself or others
it is understanding things, events, and people (yourself, others, society)

I think it is about grasping and knowing

When you talk about what others say or do
and remain without taking action yourself

the awareness of your own weaknesses lies there

Words of Socrates

Know thyself

Daughters
grow up watching their parents' backs

Yes, I take that as a personal reminder

I gain my own insights from my daughters
and I gain my own insights from others as well

With my daughters who have wavered so much
I have truly clashed with them like this...

As my daughters spread their wings and leave the nest

I find myself thinking of them

~Learning and Growth~

Facing and supporting things patiently every day
in parenting, work, marriage, and with myself

I love improving myself♡

I love watching children and people grow like that♡

Growth is wonderful, isn't it?✨💕

I take responsibility for myself and stay grounded.

Praise yourself even for the little things.

I am truly feeling myself and living my life✨

..Thank you for reading..

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