Unconscious Actions: A Snapshot of Married Life

Good morning!
Today is just a bit of a rant (lol) 😅

Please enjoy a little scene from our home ♪

I want to say this to the comedy duo Itsukokokara, famous for their Algorithm Gymnastics!
Their signature style!

When it's sad~ ♫ When it's sad~ ♫

When I'm working on my note in the living room,
and my husband turns off the lights and leaves without saying a word~ ♫

When it's sad~ ♫ When it's sad~ ♫

When I'm working on my note in the living room,
and my husband turns off the lights and leaves without saying a word~ ♫

(Inner voice)

When this happens,
I don't even get flustered anymore; I just stay silent,
keep staring at my tablet glowing in the dark,
and act as if nothing happened 😓

(Don't panic, don't panic, what, what, what just happened?)
(Sorting it out in my head... while my eyes and movements stay the same)

All the while, my husband continues to pace back and forth behind me...

(Flashback)

He was sleeping while watching TV, and when he thought he woke up, he
rewound it to watch TV again, and perhaps because he wanted to go to bed early
for his endoscopy tomorrow, he turned off the TV and
seemed to be getting ready for bed,turning off the living room lights as he went...

While looking at note, I
was watching my husband's behavior out of the corner of my eye the whole time.

After the lights were turned off, for a lonnnng time,
he said nothing,
and didn't move at all.

In the darkness, my husband was brushing his teeth on the sofa nearby...

(Inner voice)

He's completely in his own world!

Yeah, I'm going to say something!

(If I get angry and say 'Why did you turn them off!', it'll cause friction because it was unconscious)

While staring at note,
I muttered as if talking to myself! (The muttering strategy)

"I was working, but then the lights suddenly went out and the room got dark~♪"


*(I tried to convey it gently, as if my inner voice had slipped out, adding a cute tone to the end of the sentence😄)

My husband goes, "Oh, uh..." 💧 (He realized it)

"Ah, I thought it was bright!"

(Inner voice)

Yeah, I'll say it!

"I've been here the whole time, working in this light~♪"
"And you didn't ask if it was okay to turn it off because it was bright~♪"

(*Muttering this in the same way as above, just stating the words without putting any emotion into them)

And then,

with his toothbrush still in his mouth,

he just went "Hmm!" and,

turned the light back on and walked off to the washroom (lol)

(The End)

Asking my husband to apologize right now is a bit much... 😅
He's doing it unconsciously and his brain is basically on autopilot (lol).

The goal isn't to get an apology,
but for him to understand my situation, reflect on his own actions,
and just have a lightbulb moment!

So, I'll just let everything else slide!

Aren't I just too amazing? (lol) 😂

My daughter sent me a video on LINE before, but
the remnants of that are still alive and well today (lol).

It's this one (lol) 👇

Oh, I was so surprised,
my jaw just dropped,
so I vented about it on note (lol) 😂

Well, let's just have a laugh about it ✨

~A Document of Last Night in Our Home~

...Thank you for reading...