Leaving

Leaving because you care about someone

Things like that happen, don't they?

Thinking of the other person

Not leaving because you dislike them, but
for the sake of the other person

You've done something like that before, haven't you?

Silently watching over them

It's similar to that

It's not about giving up,
or falling out of love,
or anything like that

It's because you are rooting for them

There are times like that too

Getting fed up,
getting angry,
wanting to leave

There is also that kind of leaving

Is it difficult
to feel the difference between them...

Because people feel various emotions

There are personal belongings and
relationships as well,
and time might be necessary too

Separating

It is a matter of keeping distance or creating space, but

watching over them

is also something that happens

At such times, it is usually
when you want to lend a hand but cannot

Because it is a time to
distinguish between yourself and the other person

separation of tasks it is

Therefore, both the other person and yourself

feel a little bit of loneliness or sadness,
feeling something like being held back

and even feeling a bit painful...
like bracing yourself in your gut

Setting aside your own intentions
and doing the opposite

for the sake of the other person

That kind of kindness

Just like when a small child
wants to try doing everything on their own

or when they are trying to take on a challenge

Also,

like when you suppress the ego within yourself
and move toward the next stage

there is something like separation there

to go beyond oneself

to watch over silently

Whether it is the other person's challenge
or when facing one's own challenge

I feel things like that

Even if, for instance, they fail

I told you so!

I will not say things like that

That is different from watching over, wishing, and caring,
it is words that come out because things didn't go as I expected

it means it is within self-centered thinking

If you care about the other person, regardless of the result,
you acknowledge their efforts and actions

Something you can acknowledge

To watch over
is to support them

It is different from being a bystander

Being a bystander is sympathy
watching over is empathy and understanding

Because you are on their side

Because it is about being close to them

Moving away
keeping your distance

There are many meanings to it, but

for the other person
for yourself

and

what you can do for them

and

if you are giving what you can provide

then

I will not deny that action

You did your best✨

Yes,

you should be able to praise both others and yourself

you should be able to praise them

Supporting and watching over someone means exactly that.

Moving away means

giving various important things

nurturing

if you realize that, your heart has grown a little

if you were being considerate...

~Being close~

Moving away means keeping a respectful distance.

Between people, because we are different from one another, we build relationships while keeping a respectful distance.

How to build a relationship is, after all, between people.

How do you see the other person?
I wonder... for both sides...

That is relationship, closeness

Person to person

..Thank you for reading..

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