I tried answering 30 questions to discover my values

I feel like I don't really know my own values as well as I think I do.
As a result of just living day to day, there are times when what is truly important becomes blurred.
So this time,
I took some time to answer '30 questions to discover your values'.

That is why I decided to take a moment and answer the '30 questions to discover your values'.

Question 1: Who are the celebrities or people around you that you respect?
Tanjiro Kamado, Doraemon, Conan
Kind, friendly to everyone, and positive
Question 2: What kind of person do you want people to say you were after you die?
Someone who was true to what they loved
Someone who was cute and couldn't be left alone
Question 3: What are your favorite books among those you have read so far?
The illustration collection of Mangetsu Coffee Shop
The Star Reading of Mangetsu Coffee Shop
KAGAYA's star photography collection
Question 4: What is something you have been able to put effort into in your life so far?
Studying and maintaining a good attitude to get into my ideal school
Question 5: Find a quote from a collection of quotes that resonates with you
Happiness is always decided by your own heart
(Mitsuo Aida)
Question 6: What do you like or dislike about your father's way of living?
He is responsible and reliable. He does things for the family. He is generous with the family. (Like)
Sometimes his way of speaking is cold and not positive. (Dislike)
Question 7: What do you like or dislike about your mother's way of living?
Her words and actions are kind, she is caring, and she is reassuring. (Like)
She is a people-pleaser and too good-natured, so I worry that she is losing out. (Dislike)
Question 8: Pretending you are 80 years old, fill in the blanks in the sentences
"I spent too much time fearing ______"
=> Future anxiety (mainly financial hardship) and the eyes of society and others
"I have spent almost no time on things like ______"
=> Drinking parties and social gatherings
"If I could turn back time, from now on I would like to spend time on ______"
=> Living happily as my true self
Question 9: What criteria have you valued when making decisions in your life so far?
Following my true feelings.
Question 10: Who is the person you respect the least at work or in your private life?
Someone who forces their own correctness on others. Someone who mocks others.
Someone who speaks ill of others and disrupts the atmosphere. An attacking type!
Question 11: Who is your closest friend?
Hmm... I don't think I have one right now
Question 12: Who is someone you feel inspired by when you meet them?
Someone who is shining while doing what they want to do.
And yet, someone who is flexible without strange discrimination or preconceptions.
Question 13: What is an experience in your life so far that you are proud of?
Being able to enter my desired high school through entrance exams
Question 14: What is an event that has moved you so far?
The night I saw shooting stars four times in Nagano
Beautiful skies and scenery
Question 15: What is something you cannot forgive in your life so far?
Fortunately, I can't think of anything right now
Question 16: What actions do you want to convey or not convey when raising children or guiding others?
Want to convey:Don't compare yourself to others. Go at your own pace.
Don't want to convey:Do it even if you have to push others aside.
Question 17: What values do your favorite things have in common?
Photography, blogging, cafe hopping, traveling, appreciating art
The common points are recording, emotion, and imagination
Question 18: If everything you wrote here came true in 5 years, what would you be like?
Everything, right? Then I'd be rich and travel all over the country~ I'd enjoy my work as a writer or something~ I'd have a kind and reliable partner~ I'd want a summer villa in a cool countryside. I want to live a calm and laid-back life where I don't have to worry about anything anymore. I want to be treated like a princess once. I want to watch the final episode of Demon Slayer in anime. I hope that I and the people around me stay healthy. I want the summer to be cooler. I want my menstrual pain to disappear. I also want friends who I really get along with.
Sorry for being greedy (lol)
Question 19: Ask the people around you what they think you value in life
Whether it has value to me, whether I like it
Being natural
Question 20: When do you feel happy?
When I am sleeping wrapped in a blanket feeling safe
When I see spectacular views or nature on a nice day
When I am praised for being good at taking photos
When I eat delicious food
Question 21: What do you think about society that makes you wish it were more like 'something'?
It's about Japan as a whole, but while public safety is improving, I wish it had the looseness and fun of overseas~. I want it to be normal to play instruments in the street, introduce Fika, and be loose and slack off rather than working too hard.
There are many people who are strict with others and themselves.
If that's the case, more people will get frustrated and dissatisfied, so I want a more relaxed atmosphere. Maybe they should play Latin music in the streets.
Question 22: What are you proud of right now, both at work and in your private life?
The warmth of my family
Having encountered many things I love
My sensitivity, for better or worse
Question 23: Imagine your state right before you die and fill in the blanks: 'It was the best life, a ______ life'
Everything I wanted to do has been done
Question 24: What have you consistently valued in your past life?
Not intentionally hurting people. If I hurt someone unconsciously, I'm sorry for that. (Sincerity)
Question 25: What do you think is missing in today's society?
The leeway for young people to have hope and security for the future? Vitality?
Question 26: What experiences from your childhood or adolescence have had a major impact on who you are today?
The feeling of not quite fitting in...
Feeling like I was being spoken to sarcastically...
Maybe it's trauma
Question 27: What kind of people do you respect at work or in your private life?
People who have the leeway to offer warm words and solve things through action
Question 28: Who is someone who has had a major impact on who you are today?
I like the thoughts and works of people who seem to have an N-type MBTI, like Kenshi Yonezu, Kenji Miyazawa, Hayao Miyazaki, and Makoto Shinkai.
Question 29: What kind of way of living do you think is cool?
Acting according to one's beliefs.
Someone like a hero who helps and protects people.
Question 30: What do you want to spend more time on in your current life?
Actually, traveling. Going out. Gourmet activities.
But I can't do it because I feel lonely alone, and I worry about money and physical strength. (Am I an old person...)

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