Let's Express Our Love in Words: Words Recommended by Childcare Workers to Deepen Parent-Child Bonds (Part 2)

I am sure many of you love your children dearly, but how many of you actually express that love in words?

Children cannot fully grasp their parents' feelings through attitude alone.
Are your feelings of love for your child truly getting through?
Do you tell your child that you love them?

Children become suspicious and insecure when they don't know if they are loved, leaving them feeling unfulfilled.
They doubt, and they test you.
Do you still love me even after this?
Will you still not abandon me even if I do this?
And sometimes, they end up feeling self-loathing for troubling the parents they love so much.
They start to dislike themselves, and their self-affirmation decreases.
It leads to thoughts like, 'I'm no good anyway...'
Parents, please show them:

I am watching you.
I love you.
You are a person of special value to me.
Please convey this not just through your attitude, but by clearly adding words.
That will become the strength that opens up your child's future.
Unconditional 'I love you' is the ultimate form of total affirmation.


Do not play games like 'I love you because you did this' or 'I won't say I love you because you didn't do that'.

Just convey it unconditionally.

Feelings do not reach others if you keep them hidden in your heart.
When both you and your child are relaxed, try saying 'I love you' out loud.
As your child grows, your 'I love you!' will surely become their nourishment. There will definitely come a time when it becomes their strength.
And I believe that will create a positive chain reaction that will continue to the next generation.

For the happy future of the children we love so much.
By expressing your love, you can raise a child who is proud of themselves,
and boost your child's self-esteem♪

Thank you for reading until the end.

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