Becoming Someone Who Can Choose 'What I Want to Do' | 6-Month Session for Living by Your Own Values
I'm always trying to fit in with others and it's exhausting.
I have things I want to do, but I can't seem to take the first step.
I worry about what others think and don't know my own true feelings.
This program is a 6-month practical session designed for those who find themselves prioritizing others every day or giving up on things they 'actually want to do.' It will help you discover your 'true self,' stop being swayed by others, and move toward the future you desire using your own strength.
Even so,
I feel a bit hesitant to talk about my worries with someone I don't know...
If that's how you feel, I would be happy if you first read my self-introduction and my thoughts on this salon 👇
🌟 Changes you can gain from this course (6 steps)
■ Session 1: Accepting yourself as you are (Confirming your current position)
【Theme】
Stop blaming yourself and give yourself permission to be as you are now.
【 Before 】
Evaluating yourself with a deduction-based mindset and blaming yourself for your flaws.
【 After 】
You will be able to gently acknowledge both your strengths and weaknesses without judgment, saying, 'This is who I am right now.'
■ Session 2: Discovering your 'true feelings' (Finding your own axis)
【Theme】
Finding your own standards that aren't swayed by others.
【 Before 】
Worrying about others' evaluations and reactions, and suppressing your true feelings.
【 After 】
You will be able to understand your own true choices, focusing on 'What do I want to do?' rather than 'What will others think?'
■ Session 3: Drawing 'comfortable boundaries' between yourself and others (Organizing your time)
【Theme】
Separating others' problems from your own and valuing your own time.
【 Before 】
Unable to draw appropriate boundaries between yourself and others, prioritizing them and becoming exhausted.
【 After 】
You will be able to maintain an appropriate distance without hurting others and secure 'time just for yourself' at least once a week.
■ Session 4: Taking a small step with your 'own will' (Improving your ability to take action)
【Theme】
Stop waiting and start moving on your own.
[ Before ]
A state of being passive due to anxiety about failure, leaving your life to others
[ After ]
You will be able to take small, proactive steps while reframing things positively, making yourself the subject by saying, "I will do this!"
■ Session 5: Turning confusion and dissatisfaction into "what you want to do" (Defining goals)
[ Theme ]
Deciding "how you really want to be" instead of ending with dissatisfaction
[ Before ]
A state where you are too focused on dissatisfaction and have lost sight of your true desires
[ After ]
You will notice the "true wishes" behind your confusion, narrow down what you need to do, and be able to move forward clearly.
■ Session 6: Communicating in your own words and becoming the protagonist of your life (Autonomy and consolidation)
[ Theme ]
Conveying your thoughts to others and living true to yourself
[ Before ]
A state of not being confident in your choices and handing over the reins of your life to others
[ After ]
You will be able to feel confident in the choices you have made, communicate them sincerely to others, and walk forward as the protagonist of your life.
💡 Features of this course
◆ Utilizing "Star Reading" as a tool to view yourself objectively
Instead of relying only on senses and emotions, we use "Star Reading (Astrology)" to objectively analyze the qualities, strengths, and core you were born with.
Because the root cause of "why I have been thinking that way until now" becomes clear visually and theoretically, you can cultivate an unwavering core in the shortest time possible.
◆ Compatible with any goal
It can be applied to your "I want to be like this" goals, such as changing jobs, side hustles, improving relationships, or rethinking how you work.
◆ Small steps to prevent setbacks
The steps are designed to proceed carefully from building a foundation of the heart (mindset), allowing you to change your actions naturally without strain.
🌱 [Student Case Study] Changes that occurred in just 2 out of 6 sessions
◆ Ms. S (43 years old, married, lives with her husband and middle-school son)
[Concerns before taking the course]
"I always prioritize the schedules and moods of my husband and children, and I always put myself last. I don't know what I want to do or how to spend my own time..."
[Goal]
To be able to make choices based on my own will and to be able to clearly tell others, "This is what I want to do."
✨ Changes that occurred in just 2 sessions
① Took a step toward a job I had always wanted to try!
Ms. S had always prioritized her family and put herself last. By facing her "true feelings" in the session, she took a step toward a part-time job interview in an industry she had always wanted to try!
② Became able to make "time for myself" without guilt!
Ms. S said, "Until now, I prioritized my family and refrained from going out at night for my own errands." Through the sessions, she learned to value her own feelings and participated in a cross-industry networking event she had been to before for the first time in a while!
Furthermore, she is continuing to study makeup and fashion, and is now able to act honestly on what she "wants to do" without being overly concerned about her family.
🌸 Application Requirements & Support Details
[Program Details]
・Once a month × 6 sessions, one-on-one individual sessions (90 minutes per session)
└ Online: Zoom (Available nationwide)
└ In-person: Salon [Fortune-telling Cafe]
(Kano Nagaya Room 4, 2nd Floor, 338-1 Nogata, Nogata City, Fukuoka Prefecture)
・Support for questions and consultations during the period
(Includes message follow-up via LINE or email)
[Course Duration]
6 months (once a month)
[Course Fee]
Total of 6 sessions: 55,000 yen (tax included)
[How to Inquire or Apply]
Please feel free to contact us via the form below for any inquiries or consultations.
