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The realization that there are people who find me

I continue to post on social media as a "family health room teacher," but until very recently, I was posting while holding onto the feeling of,

"I wonder if this is actually reaching anyone?"

Thankfully, recently, especially on Instagram, the number of people following me has been increasing little by little.

What I post are hints for family relationships and content that can serve as an opportunity to rethink one's family.


These are not posts that "go viral."

"I wonder if I am being useful to someone."

Thinking things like that, I continued to post every day.


Until now, to those who followed me, I only sent a simple greeting like,

"Thank you for following me. I look forward to connecting with you 😌"
This was because I had some hesitation about sending messages beyond that.

"If I reach out, won't it make them feel like they have to be polite?"
"Won't they feel burdened by it?"

I was worrying about it in a strange way.
Recently, I changed that a little bit.

In addition to the greeting, I started to briefly add:

🔸 Why I am doing this outreach
🔸 What I value

Then, I started receiving replies like,
"That's a wonderful activity!"

"I resonate with your thoughts!"








This clear change made me very happy.

For those who followed me but with whom I had no message exchange, I would sometimes think,

"I wonder if they are really interested?"

It is rude to say, but this was undoubtedly due to my own lack of confidence.

However, by exchanging words, it became much clearer than before that "they followed me because they were interested in the content of my posts."







The trigger for deciding to send this message was when I rethought, "Who am I posting for?"

It has been a little over a year since I started my activities, but my thoughts have been changing little by little.

To be precise, they have been becoming "clearer."

When I was working in the field, the feeling of


"I want to be a help to people who are worried about their families"

was strong, but after that, it changed to

"I want to think about an ideal family image together"

and now, it has settled on the thought of

"I want to increase the number of comfortable families who can support each other in the future and cooperate with each other"





When I thought about it that way, I realized that my posts are not something I choose someone to deliver to.

Regardless of generation or position, I keep it openfor everyone living in a family.

Among them, it would be good if the people who need it receive it at the necessary timing.

Even if it is not needed now, if it remains somewhere like "there is someone who posts about family" or "there is a place I can remember when I am in trouble," that is enough.

Whether to utilize it or not is up to that person.
It is not visible in numbers, but it is a feeling that it is properly reaching people.

Since noticing this feeling, sending messages and continuing to post have become much more natural than before.

I feel like this realization has helped me grow a little.








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