For moms worried about their child's studies! What are the magic words to make children love studying?
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The magic words that make children love studying are words that boost their self-esteem.
Self-esteem refers to one's confidence and sense of value; when this is high, academic performance and abilities improve, leading to a happy future.
So, what kind of words boost self-esteem? Here are a few examples.
That's amazing!
As expected of you!
That's great!
You did it!
Thank you!
You're working hard!
Good job!
These words nurture a child's self-respect and confidence by acknowledging their efforts and achievements, and by expressing gratitude and praise. Children are sensitive to the evaluations and reactions of their parents and those around them, so by hearing many positive words, they develop the feeling that they can do it.
Conversely, words that lower a child's self-esteem are things like the following:
Hurry up!
Do it properly!
Go study!
What are you doing!
That's no good!
Compare yourself to other children!
Try harder!
These words increase a child's sense of self-denial and anxiety by denying, forcing, or comparing their actions and abilities.
Children suffer from the expectations and pressure of their parents and those around them, so hearing many negative words makes them feel like they are incapable.
For a child to love studying, the first thing a parent can do is be mindful of their own words.
Let's use more positive words and fewer negative words with our children. Also, let's find ways to make studying fun by matching their pace and interests.
For example, you can let the child decide the amount of study or the time, learn while playing games or quizzes, or use materials related to themes or genres the child likes.
The magic words that make a child love studying are words that boost their self-esteem.
Parents should use many positive words, reduce negative words, and find ways to make studying fun for their children. If you do that, your child will gain confidence and start to feel the joy of learning👍
P.S.
How was it?
I imagine many people have been told things like "Hurry up!" or "Get a move on!" when they were children😓
There might also be "Behave yourself!"
We want to be careful with our words and try to strike a good balance, don't we?😊✨
I hope this is helpful.
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