Putting emotions into words is the first step to facing yourself👟

It's Rion🐾

I am currently, creating a textbook on Evolutionary Astrology⭐️
Or rather, I'm recreating the textbook😅

After all, existing star readings are just not enough❗️
Honestly, the 'laws of the spiritual world' are missing there☝️

To put it in my own way, it feels like it stops at vague, fluffy spirituality💦

Why is that?
Even though they proclaim 'equality' and 'parity' in the 'Age of Air🍃',
no matter how you look at it, the content is full of 'authority,' 'threats,' 'exclusivity,' 'good and evil,' and 'hierarchy.'
And it's as if the influence of celestial bodies is being described like 'black magic' or 'white magic'😱

Being 'controlled' by celestial bodies, or 'controlling' them...
If you were in the position of a celestial body, how would you feel?

If it were me, honestly, I wouldn't want to deal with them😂
Because it's just too much trouble🤣

Some people might have the answer, 'I'll control them even more so I don't lose,' but
celestial bodies, the energy changes based on the very state of your soul☝️
In other words, the reality you attract changes depending on your own state.

＊Gods and Buddhas are also symbols, and this is not the time to be blaming someone else😱

No matter how much you think 'I don't want this' in your head, for better or worse,
it is the reality your soul desired in order to make you face what is in front of you😎

So, how do you get out of that situation?...
facing yourself is the most important thingbut, there are many people who don't know how to face themselves in this way😅

The introduction was long, but this time, I would like to talk about how to face yourself😊

1. What it means to face yourself

I have quite a long history of doing readings, and
I've read for a significant number of people...
Among them, there were quite a few who participated in various workshops and took the action of "getting to know themselves."
That action itself is a very good thing, but...
Honestly, among them,there was almost no one who truly knew themselves😅

Some were just drunk on the act of participating,
and even when I taught them the methods, they would say, "I did that, but nothing changed," and
instead of wondering "Why?" about that lack of change,there were also people who would say, "It's useless no matter what I do," making me wonder if they really wanted to learn or just wanted to be praised😱

Of course, even when I teach how to face oneself, the number of people whocan truly commit to it
is, well, honestly, maybe one in several thousand😅
(The number of people I've read for is in the tens of thousands☝️)

That is how much"truly facing yourself"is something that"can feel painful"to humans.
However,once you understand how to face yourself, you can actually feel it becoming "easier," and you start thinking, "I want to feel even more at ease"😂

I think getting to that point is the hard part💦

If I may say so,"it's painful only because you aren't digging deep enough,"but then,
why does the digging end up being shallow?That is because
you are not objectively observing your own emotions daily and trying to understand human nature😊

Many people"want to be a pure person,"but unfortunately, the more they think that, the more
their inner self is actually murky😅Therefore,
the reality is that many people get lost in their own emotions, feel pain, and then quit.(Including pretending it "never happened"💦)

In the past, when I"everyone has a dark side, you know"said that lightly, someone got extremely angry at me😂
For that person, the reality of their anger was the answer☝️

Why did they get angry?
They thought in their head, "I am a pure person. I don't have a dark side." I then placed the reality in front of them by saying, "Everyone has a dark side, you know."
Then,what was in their head and what was in their heart did not match☝️
A bug occurred because of the words I uttered, and their defense mechanism kicked in.

In other words,the moment they got angry, they admitted that there was murkiness in their heart👈
(You could also call it a "feeling of defeat" because what they were hiding was exposed)

If this were a case wherethey had admitted from the beginning that there was murkiness inside them...
orif that murkiness was minimal,
"That's true, I think I have that side of me to some extent too😂"I think they would have laughed.
That is becausethey are objectively observing what it means to be human through themselves, and on top of that, they are accepting themselves without getting lost in their emotions, and thus understand the person they are😎

Also,"You should be more honest"when I told someone that,
"I think I am honest! What do you mean by being honest?" they pushed back😅
Yes, you probably already know what I want to say,
if they were truly honest,"Am I still not honest enough?" "If that's how it looks to you, then maybe that's the case."and so on,
no matter how much they didn't intend for it to be that way, they should have accepted the fact that the other person sees it that way without pushing back☝️

*The general interpretation of "honest" seems to be "saying everything that is on your mind"😱

However, this client came back for another reading with me three years later and said,
“Three years ago, you told me, ‘You should be more honest with yourself.’ At the time, I didn’t understand what you meant at all and got emotional, but I’ve been thinking about what you taught me ever since, and I finally understand what ‘being honest’ means. True honesty is about accepting what is in your heart!”
she told me.😊

Those of you who are perceptive probably already know!❗️
Yes,first, acknowledging your own emotions, and asking yourself, ‘Why is there a version of me that is seen that way by others?’ or ‘Why is there a version of me that makes people say such things?’ and using the people around you as a mirror for yourself is part of what it means to face yourself.
☝️

In other words,‘facing yourself’ also means that you cannot face yourself unless you are ‘honest.’❗️
It is difficult for people who cannot listen to others.😅

Conversely, people who are prepared to verify, no matter what is said to them,‘Is that a fact?’, ‘Are there any contradictions?’, ‘Is there any basis for this?’ are people who are prepared to learn.

Your own words and actions, the words and actions of others, the people, things, and current situations you attract...
all of these are things you have attracted in order to face yourself.😎
Therefore, without blaming anyone else,
and without judging your own good or bad points,
acknowledging your own emotions and creating a version of yourself that is at peace is what it means to face yourself.☝️

2. People who can grow are people who can observe themselves

I“believe that humans are fools,”so I believe that
being imperfect is what it means to be human.😊
In fact, thatfoolishness is the charm of humanity, and I love humans.💖

Depending on how much you can accept that foolishness,the capacity to accept human elements will differ, and the speed of growth will also change.

In the language of the spiritual world,
“Because you can be kind to everyone like a Buddha, your vibration is high.”
“Because your spiritual rank is high, your vibration is also high.”
It is not uncommon for the height of one's vibration to be used as a yardstick for measuring growth.

Yes, this is also full of points to critique.☝️
In the first place,why is the Buddha touted as someone who is ‘equal to everyone and kind to everyone’?
It is because, rather than an ‘other-centered’ approach, it isa ‘self-centered’ approach, where while you cherish yourself and strive to be a version of yourself that you like, you can treat everyone the same, and there exists a mindset where there is no superior or inferior.😊

In other words, as long as you are using words that compare yourself to others, such as being ‘special’ or having a ‘high vibration or high spiritual rank,’honestly, you are emitting a ‘combative’ vibration, so your vibration is rarely good.😅

I think many people misunderstand this, but
there is a person who was born human and is called a Buddha, but
if you ask whether the Buddha did not have emotions,
it was precisely because he had emotions that he delved into human emotions and preached the spiritual world,and I think the Buddha must have also felt irritated, felt joy, cried, and laughed,
and because he was more human than anyone else, he was able to accept humanity.☝️

However, people who are growing spiritually have a different
temperature at which they dig into the emotions caused by the discomfort they feel, and the negative emotions created from that discomfort
☝️That is why they
rarely show their emotions on the surface. (Because there is no definitive answer of 'it exists' or 'it doesn't'👈)
And,

the speed at which they break down and resolve those negative emotions they've learned is also different✨✨✨

To raise your so-called boiling point for those emotions, reduce the frequency of becoming emotional, and increase the speed at which you break down and digest negative emotions even if you do feel them,

you must put your emotions into words without ignoring them☝️
Actually, this is also the best way to increase the speed of your personal growth😎

For example, if you feel sad and tears start to well up, let's name that emotion
“Sadness-chan”😊 If you are yelled at unreasonably and feel irritated, let's name that emotion
“Irritation-chan”
😊

You might think, 'Are you kidding me?', but this playfulness is also a way to
avoid getting too caught up in your own emotions❗️

The other day, when I was rewatching 'Crash Landing on You' with my daughter, bipolar disorder was translated as 'joy-and-sadness disease'😂 But doesn't it feel like you wouldn't get as caught up in it if it were called 'joy-and-sadness disease' rather than 'bipolar disorder'?

As long as humans have the habit of getting caught up in their own emotions, they will also get caught up in the emotions of others😱 When that happens, it is not uncommon to mistake someone else's emotions for your own, rather than your own emotions.

In other words, it means there are times when you aren't actually angry, but are angry because of the other person's emotions😅

That is precisely why it is important to become someone who can view anyone's emotions objectively☝️ Please try to objectively name your emotions and cherish those little ones by saying,
“So this is what it means to be a human being.”💖

3. Knowing humanity through yourself, and knowing others through humanity

“Knowing humanity through yourself, and knowing others through humanity”
Yes, these are my own words😂 I may sound pretentious, but I believe this is the
truth to accepting humanity.

Without knowing yourself, it is difficult to accept others or to truly love anyone other than yourself😊

To be honest, there are people I don't get along with and people I dislike too😊
Even so, I almost never get emotionally shaken or upset by them.
The reason is,because I accept that the person I am feeling that way about is just who they are, nothing more and nothing less, without any "expectations."

I don't ignore them, but I do keep my distance😅
If you do that, the connection will naturally fade away✨✨✨

Humans are all,made of the same elements, it's just a matter of whether those elements are "abundant or scarce."in other words☝️
In short,the elements that the people you dislike or don't get along with possess are also within you.
To put it another way, it's not that the "person you dislike" is "dislikable," but rather,that you just "dislike" those elements.that's all.

Not the person, but the element.
And actually,you only find it unacceptable that others possess those elements because you cannot accept that they exist within yourself😊

That means, first of all,you need to accept yourself, including those elements, and learn to love yourself☝️
That is why,"Understanding humanity through yourself" is the starting point.

You try to understand others without knowing yourself, which is why you end up unable to understand them even more😂

So,you learn "why the emotions you've named arise within you" by using your own senses and embodying them❗️
When you do that,you input the very structure of humanity through your sensesso,
while maintaining objectivity, your information processing becomes faster, thinking, "Oh, this person has a lot of this element, so that's why they act this way."🍃

In the first place, no matter who the other person is,someone who shakes you upis, though you might not want to think so,someone who has the same type of challenges as you🤣

After you have input humanity through yourself, you start to look at others using that human filter☝️
Once you get into that habit,because your heart is less likely to be shaken,
you become calmer and can find happinessis what I'm saying💖

Only when you can do this willboth "equality" and "fairness" be established👈
If you can't do it from the heart, there will always be contradictions in your words and actions💦

Please become the cool version of yourself through words and actions that come from the heart😎

To that end,please start by putting those emotions into words💖

That's all for now...

This was Rion🐾